

Do you have any dreams you want to understand more deeply?
When we sleep, we dream. Dreaming is a simple process that happens automatically, and it is our natural way of working through life challenges.
Dreams are your personality’s way of processing and evolving during sleep. Your mind and emotions are integrating and releasing life perspectives.
To understand your dreams, first consider that there is no universal symbolism in your dreams.
The big misconception that every visual symbol means the same thing for everyone is inaccurate. There is a huge body of information in books and online articles that will tell you what running water means or what a ladder means. All of our experiences and the way our minds process information is unique to each of us, therefore, there can be no ‘cookie cutter’ definition that applies to everyone.
Dreaming is how our conscious and subconscious mind purges and processes the happenings of our life. The things we see, hear about, experience, all merge together in this mental movie form.
Even though there is no universal symbolism, our dreams do have meaning and understanding for us.
The meaning of our dreams is revealed through understanding our feelings and thoughts behind the visual symbolism. These meanings are quite individual based on our life experiences.
God-The Source created dreaming so human beings can evaluate and process our evolution through life situations. Dreaming is a powerful way to gauge our health and life balance, and therefore to see how far we’ve cleared our personality and moved from ego-based living to soul-based living.
A few weeks ago a student shared that he had a very perplexing dream that affected him. He brought the question of what the dream meant to his self-guided Psychic Retrieval® Session. As a result, he received great intuitive insight and understanding that he wouldn’t have otherwise. He felt much more relaxed and at peace, once he received the intuitive insight from his session.
Using our intuition to understand our dreams in a Psychic Retrieval session, brings together all four intuitive qualities (seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing – the four ‘clairs’). From this illuminating experience, we have the full picture and understanding.
Intuitive interpretation is your key to understanding your dreams. You can interpret them. Maybe you already have had intuitive insights about your dreams. Share them with us. Your intuition will guide you in ways that your mind cannot. Intuition is our clearest way of perceiving the world.
Intuition is your eyes, ears, feeling and wisdom of your spirit-self, your soul.
Reveal the meaning of your dreams and see how far you’ve come in your own evolution!
New Three® University offers Psychic Retrieval®
Famous Psychic Mediums have one thing in common.
They have developed themselves.
Seasoned psychic mediums typically have felt the calling and had an initial opening from an early age. It’s true our soul abilities can be quite clear when we’re young because of the innocence we have as a child. But that is not enough to be a professional at it. Famous mediums have devoted themselves to developing their ability, and authentic mediums continue to develop for their entire life.
If you go to a psychic medium to receive answers and ask them about how they came to do their work professionally, you’ll want to hear a similar story. But if they try to convince you that they are of the ‘select few’ who were ‘born gifted’ and are ‘there’, that is your sign to run the other way! Look for psychic mediums who value and pursue their own continued growth and development. They will be great role models for you.
No one is ‘there’, or in other words, we continue to grow into new levels of being ‘there’.
Psychic mediums are usually less than 50% accurate with their readings, and this is because they believe they’ve ‘made it’. In doing so, they hit their own pause button and stay locked into a stage of development they’ve probably been in for years. They therefore do not continue their personal and spiritual growth. A medium’s reason for pausing their development is not always ego-based. Some mediums just don’t have the tools to continue their own development…they don’t know how to get to the next level and may not know there is a next level to go to!
2009 is when I started actively pursuing spiritual studies. I quickly befriended the spiritual teachers I was learning from and as I got to know them more intimately, I found that they mostly did not understand how they did what they did. Further conversations led me to understand that their own beliefs and thoughts were interfering with the messages they were getting. I noticed how much their readings were based on their own beliefs. Often times they would access only the surface of what I needed versus the deeper truth, known as a surface reading.
A year later, I met Jason Nelson and learned from him how accuracy is created by continued practice and development. Plus at times he would bring through information from spirit that contradicted his own wants and desires, which is a indicator that the information was correct.
When doing a reading for yourself, it’s important to allow yourself to receive information that you disagree with. If spirit agrees with you on everything then it’s a sign of inaccuracy.
‘Spiritual gifts’ are actually just abilities within every single person. They are being accessed by some more than others. You are a spirit having a physical life, so by that fact, you maintain access to all of your innate spiritual abilities, which include spiritual communication and intuition. You can be your own psychic medium.
What does it take to be your own psychic medium?
Development!
We become great by developing. You learn, practice and devote yourself to personal growth to address fears and overcome resistance. This helps you maintain a clear opening to your psychic mediumship abilities.
Get your own messages and become more than 50% accurate by learning the concise techniques spirit has provided to us. They work for every person to develop their psychic mediumship abilities.
We have a full circle approach with our three training courses so you develop your spiritual communication mediumship in Voice Channeling®, intuitive psychic senses in Psychic Retrieval®, and personal growth to shift limiting beliefs and blocks in Five Accomplishments® Coaching.
Allow the infinite wisdom of your magical soul to shine through and illuminate direction and loving support in your daily life.
New Three® University teaches you how to develop yourself in Voice Channeling®
During this time, this sacred, special, meaningful Holiday Season, we are encouraged to remember what we’re grateful for and share love with family and friends.
Breaking bread around the dinner table and saying prayers is a way we connect a little deeper than other times of the year with family and friends.
But have you invited all your friends and all your family to your sacred dinner table? Have you sent out invitations to the other side? I’m talking about the Nonphysical Universe and your invisible family and friends.
I see the Nonphysical Universe as well as feel, hear and know it, because I’ve developed all four of my intuitive qualities equally. Add to that, a powerful ability to communicate with spirit and my holidays are jampacked with all of my most beloved soul friends and family. My guides and deceased loved ones love attending gatherings and dinners during this time of the year, so I’m sure to include them.
How do you send out these special invites and include deceased loved ones and spiritual guides in your festive occasion? Since they receive your invite instantaneously, you don’t have to worry about them getting it. Just put the thought out there. It’s that simple!
Including them at the table can be a lot of fun. Try putting an extra chair or two for them to occupy space and be with you. They don’t need the chair obviously, but it makes it more physical and real, and can help you connect with them as a result.
Use telepathy to communicate with your nonphysical guests by imagining what they may ask or say. It’s a magical time of the year and you can make it extra joyful with this simple inclusion of your loved ones who are always with you but who we rarely involve to this degree.
For our practitioners who’ve become certified in Voice Channeling® and Psychic Retrieval®, this playful adventure should come more easily. And if you are new to using your intuition and talking with spirit, then just pretend and be as a child, lifting the limitations of your mind, so you can accept new experiences like sitting with your deceased loved ones and guides at the dinner table.
This will become more common for the average person as we approach the next century. But for now, be a pioneer for this new way of existing and receive all that your spiritual guides have to share!
Imagine…release…and believe…
New Three® University shows you how to openly communicate with your spiritual guidance and deceased loved ones in Voice Channeling®
One thing we all have in common is a desire for instant changes or instant gratification. By moving into a soul-based mindset, you will experience instant shifts each moment, truly.
My first passion was creating and performing music. Playing guitar in bands from age fifteen to twenty five provided me the greatest pleasure, and part of that satisfaction was how my music touched others. But I wanted more. I wanted a record deal with a real record company. Then, I wanted to write songs for major artists and produce them in the recording studio. I didn’t want to wait.
My epiphany with God on my twenty-fifth birthday showed me a new passion and purpose. Spirit has shown me a great, expansive vision of New Three® University, and what is to come thereafter.
Seeing the future and such an enormous potential, leaves a small part of me wanting it now, whereas the bigger part of me is enjoying each step of creating this global movement under spirit, and the magic each day brings.
More importantly, I’ve learned to see the instant shifts in each moment.
Moving away from ego-based attachments of what I don’t have yet, into the soul-based freedom and enjoyment of what I do have, provides me an appreciation for the big steps that are actually happening every day.
It could be a physical shift, such as my recent move to Big Bear Lake, CA, or a mental and emotional shift.
Shifts are happening right now on many levels for each of us.
Your Big Tips:
• Learn to focus on the shifts that are occurring now, train your mind and heart to see the accomplishments and growth that is happening in each moment—and You Will Create More Of It!
• Have an authentic dialogue in your heart and mind, “A shift is happening right now for me, and I’m celebrating it.”
This will move you into the alignment with your soul and as a result, you can expect to see more shifts that you didn’t see before, and new shifts that would not occur if you did not have this new soul-based mindset.
Your soul-based mindset can be cultivated every day to create a more peaceful, jovial life. This is also the energy of manifesting. The ripple effect of living as your soul in human form inspires and uplifts the people around you.
Many people want a reliable personal growth practice to create daily shifts within themselves. God-The Source has given Jason a successful sequence of steps that provide you a long-term, spiritual growth lifestyle taught in our Five Accomplishments® Coaching program. This program is experienced in two ways: for your own spiritual growth, and you also learn how to use the techniques to help others if that is your passion. Everyone has the most wonderful spiritual expansion personally, but some practitioners choose to coach others professionally with this spiritual coaching system.
New Three® University guides you into a consistent soul-based mindset in Five Accomplishments® Coaching
Is Intuition Genetic or Can It Be Learned?
Commonly people believe that intuition is genetic, meaning passed down through a lineage or that we are born with only one or two of the four main intuitive senses of seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing. Is this true or can we learn to fully open these four intuitive qualities?
My mother was always incredibly intuitive, not only knowing things before they happen, but knowing where missing objects were located with incredible precision. She also talked to spirit. Her main spirit guide’s name is Angelica and my mom shared with me that Angelica has been with her since the beginning of her life. My earliest childhood memories are of seeing spirit.
Is there a connection between my mother’s ability and mine? Yes, but not in the way you may think. The way our abilities are connected are simply because I was in the aura or energy of these abilities being used, so it actually programmed my subconscious mind from pre-birth that not only are these abilities real, but they are accessible. In this way, my abilities were nurtured. Though it is not genetic.
There are certainly numerous factors that decide how open a person is to their abilities and how easy opening them up more is for them, but every spiritual ability can be learned, because the root of an ability being closed down is in the mind. With practice and removing blocks we can open our intuition in ways we didn’t think was possible.
My intuitive seeing was closed down from age fifteen to twenty five, because when I was a teenager I saw my deceased grandfather in the middle of the night and I didn’t want to see anymore, so I said, “God, I don’t want to see ever again.” My wish was granted, and it wasn’t until my twenties that I said, “God, I’m ready to see.” Instantly, my intuitive seeing was open and I was seeing my spiritual guides. I had a mental block and I removed that block.
Every practitioner or client who goes through our Psychic Retrieval® experience, opens and uses all four of their intuitive senses. Our human potential is so strong, and it inspires me every time I witness it.
We all can achieve the evolution we desire. Please believe that you can too.
We at New Three® University would love to help you to access the full potential of your soul, wherever you are on your spiritual path. If you think you might want to work with us Contact Us and let’s talk about it. It’s a perfect time empower your soul!
New Three® University guides you into your own intuition in Psychic Retrieval®
Allowing our human nature to lead our lives can create messy situations, by motivating us to respond from emotional and mental triggers, or even from our preferences of what we think is best.
Our human nature may want to tell someone exactly how we feel. With our emotions running high, we can say or do things that we believe are right in the moment, but we just end up making the situation more difficult.
It’s human to feel uncomfortable around certain people or to do certain things, and because we feel uncomfortable, we think it’s a ‘sign’ that we shouldn’t be around them or do the uncomfortable things.
Discomfort is not an intuitive insight. Discomfort is independent from intuitive ‘hits’ and intuitive direction.
Your intuition simply accesses truth and knowledge of the Universe, therefore it embodies neutrality and is objective.
Contrary to mainstream metaphysical beliefs, discomfort does not mean we are off path, and good feelings do not mean we are on path, necessarily. Often times we ‘feel good’ when we are simply comfortable or something is a known to us, and we ‘feel bad’ when we are uncomfortable or something is unknown to us. It is normal to be uncomfortable in new, unknown situations. Living our highest purpose will constantly direct us into uncharted experiences that are new and therefore can feel uncomfortable.
Many people confuse human nature and intuition.
Human nature includes emotional, intellectual and physical responses about things.
Examples of emotional responses include:
• When someone agrees with you, you feel more accepted and happy, and when someone disagrees with you, you feel less accepted and less happy. Notice your subtle vibration with acceptance and unacceptance.
• When you get what you want, you feel supported and empowered, and when you don’t get what you want, you feel less supported and confused.
Our intuition can contradict our human nature, especially when we’re actually receiving spiritual communication from our guides.
Our spiritual guidance has the widest vantage point to guide our life in the ways that are most purposeful for our soul’s journey. Spirit sees so much more than we are able to see as human beings.
Intuition picks up on facts, and facts can bring up emotion. If we receive an intuitive truth about something, and right away we’re feeling emotions, it can be confusing where the emotional and intuitive aspects are affecting each other. It’s not easy to pull out the intuition from the high emotion being felt. They mix and cloud each other.
There are seven key qualities to have intuitive clarity:
1. Be grounded energetically in-body, connected to your total self.
2. Calm your thoughts, emotions and body.
3. Be aware of the emotional component of the insight.
4. Become aware of the mental component of the insight.
5. Move your point of consciousness slightly back into the observer perspective.
6. Connect to the intuitive component of the insight or truth of the situation.
7. Understand how the emotional and mental component could have been triggered by the intuitive component of the insight, so that you have a greater discernment of the next step or action that you want to take.
The intuitive insight will always appear more subtle, and is typically more apparent once the mental and emotional parts are calmed or neutralized, leaving clear intuitive direction.
Knowing the difference between our emotional, intellectual and physical responses and our intuition is learned through our training experiences that all work together. Direct spiritual communication is learned through Voice Channeling®. Ego-based and soul-based conscious and subconscious healing and transforming limitations is experienced in Five Accomplishments® Coaching. Strengthening and using all four intuitive abilities of seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing, is mastered in Psychic Retrieval®.
Do you want your human nature to lead your life or do you want your own intuition and spirit to be your guide?
Move out of struggle into your greatest flow as the eternal soul you are.
New Three® University teaches you to let your own intuition and spirit be your guide in Psychic Retrieval®.
Allowing spirit to lead you grants access to an energy line that few people have connected to.
A few big ways people prevent spirit from leading include: procrastinating, mistrust, and not having an effective technique to hear, see, know and feel spirit.
For Melissa and I, we recently overcame the procrastination around guidance spirit gave us two years ago. They instructed us to move to snowy Big Bear Lake, California, two and a half hours from the life and people we know. Actually, the big reason we have procrastinated is because of the long, windy road going up the mountain, and the thought of driving down and back up it once a week.
But we’re making the move this week. We can feel the change happening and look forward to finally following spirit’s instructions to live there.
When you’re deciding whether to trust spirit’s guidance, after using an effective technique to hear spirit clearly, it’s helpful to explore it with research or by just jumping in and taking action with it. Some forward movement is always helpful, and using your best discernment.
There’s a doorway before you, you can step through it and allow spirit to lead you.
The most effective doorway we’ve found is the technique spirit gave us to share with you called the Voice Channeling® Technique. Let’s see where spirit wants to lead you next!
New Three® University shows you how spirit can lead you in Voice Channeling®
Sensitives are overwhelmed and affected by the energy of people, places and things.
A common question my clients ask is, “How can I not be affected by this person or situation?” You’ve probably thought this before.
Sometimes family members, your partner, coworkers, or even children, can have an energy that is overwhelming. It feels like the opposite of peace and calm.
These energies can create uncomfortable feelings in your body of hot or cold, sleepy or stimulating, mental or emotional, or even body pains and energetic ickiness. If you think about it, you can probably imagine how you’ve been uncomfortable with the energy of others daily.
There are reasons why you are affected by these external energies. As much as we’d like to believe “we’ve made it” and that “us enlightened people shouldn’t be affected by others,” we are affected.
For the longest time, I was affected by the energy of crowds of people when I’d be shopping or at gatherings in a way that was very ungrounding for me. I noticed it was harder to be present. I’d become uncomfortable and sometimes feel drained, or my energy would jump between high and low. It wasn’t until I cultivated a grounded practice and lifestyle, and brought my newfound awareness out into the world, that I was no longer affected.
Now I enjoy the freedom of being out in the world completely empowered in my own energy with balance and harmony. It’s great. But there are other areas in my life where I’m focusing now to be more grounded, like my body wellness and perfect health. The opportunities are so abundant.
It’s true that we don’t ‘need’ to be affected by energies. But also, our civilization is not supportive of consistent harmony and peace. Currently life is quite challenging for many people. But we can decrease our sensitivity to energy so that it doesn’t ping, point, prick, and hurt us as much. Indeed, we can evolve ourselves to the point of perceivably being unaffected by others’ energy. Let’s have this be a goal and not a ‘need’.
Our goal is to be less affected every day by others’ energy. Breathe and release into this moment with this attainable goal.
Please note, when we’re speaking about being affected by others’ energy that is uncomfortable to us, we’re not blaming other people. We are taking full responsibility for how we think, feel and manage our own energy.
There are several ways we can become more aware and unaffected. What I’m explaining next is the biggest reason you feel affected, in an uncomfortable way, by others:
#1) As a ‘feeler’ or ‘intuitive feeler’ or being ‘clairsentient’, you are more open to energy. You don’t want to close down your intuitive ability, but you do want to become empowered with it. Your biggest step to take, and possibly the last step needed, to be empowered over your sensitivity to energy is to understand and practice a grounded lifestyle.
Groundedness is your point of power because it means that your energy or aura is grounded where your body space is and allows you to operate in the most soul-based, empowered way.
You have power over your life when you’re grounded, but you have no power over your life when you’re ungrounded. Please know that spirit teaches us in my divinely communicated books that the practice of being grounded is much more involved than people think.
This one practice and deeply understanding it will change everything for you. It is not only important for empowering yourself over external energy, it is absolutely necessary to effectively manifest. You will have a weak manifestation when you’re ungrounded because other energies will interrupt and affect what you wish to manifest.
What you have heard is important, that to be grounded is to be present, and the Earth can help you do that, meditation, hugging a tree, and using your breath to center. Though if it was that easy, many would be there already. It is a small part of having a grounded practice.
#2) Here is a piece that will help you for years to come, as you continue cultivating a more grounded lifestyle, so you’re not as affected by external energy. Acceptance.
The reason we become ungrounded most of the time is because there is some aspect of our life experience that we do not accept. A relationship, health, career, money, self-image, or any other facet of our life, can be a part of life we’re not accepting. Hiding, pushing down, addressing at a later time, or ignoring something altogether, is synonymous with not accepting our life.
Ask Yourself:
• What is a life area that I’m not totally accepting?
• Do I feel like I don’t want to be as present in this area of life because it’s challenging me?
• When I am not as present with this life area, do I feel less empowered over it?
These questions are to help you see the connection of acceptance with being empowered, and ultimately how you are energetically affected by something.
We have the ability to be grounded and mostly unaffected by other people and situations. We can experience peace and calm no matter what is happening around us.
New Three® University focuses on grounding, love and acceptance in Five Accomplishments® Coaching
In soul-based living, healing is understanding, therefore a perfect healing would be perfect understanding or complete awareness of self.
When cultivating awareness, it helps for us to focus on four main energies: physical, mental, emotional and soul, and their interconnected nature. The pursuit of this self-awareness can feel overwhelming at times, and people often are discouraged thinking that achieving the type of wellness they desire is not possible. But it is possible.
I’ve always had a passion for delving into the greater understanding of myself, but there has been resistance to that pursuit, even today. Being aware of the subtle resistance is the only way to overcome it. So, I seek out my resistance. It’s become part of my journey to know myself.
This week, more than ever before, my focus is on being aware of when my body wants to get up to stretch, as I’m sitting at my desk all day. My intention is to be aware and then act on the awareness I receive. I’ve found my body wants to get up and stretch or do some tai chi about every 45-60 minutes. Admittedly, I’ve not followed that body awareness with action every time, and therefore in that moment I did not choose perfect healing. I chose to ignore my healing needs. Part of my healing this week then becomes revealing and understanding the reason for sometimes ignoring what my body needs.
If perfect healing is perfect understanding, and then acting on that understanding, our ultimate vision is being in constant connection with our body, emotions, thoughts and soul. Wanting this as an idea is easier than acting on it because of how we value other things, like finishing a work task versus getting up to move our body or meditating to calm our mind and emotion.
Being aware of ourselves, in touch with our total personality and soul, allows us to transcend any imbalance.
Understanding is a path of believing and trusting that there’s a reason for everything, believing there is and can be purpose within everything.
Connecting the spiritual and physical understandings about our life, provides a total, complete awareness of our incarnation experience, as a soul in physical form.
This radical awareness enables us to not only overcome any discomfort but to create the most purposeful, complete life that we can live.
• What is your body asking of you in this moment?
• What are your thoughts and emotions saying?
• How is your soul guiding you to act?
• What is your path to perfect healing today?
Caring for the four main aspects of the energy field, the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual, by understanding them individually as well as their interconnectedness, is the journey to perfect healing.
Today, take one step at a time, create one goal at a time, with patience and self-love.
If you are pressed for time with a health condition or situation, then jump in and immerse yourself into discovering its reasons for existing. Rarely is a health crisis simply chance or bad luck. Mostly, we experience crisis because of a reason that can be discovered and transformed and that understanding begins within us.
Let us be grateful that there is always a way for each of us to move into a more perfect healing.
New Three® University offers Five Accomplishments® Coaching to experience healing and soul-based living.
Relationships are the heart of our lives in our family and career. Relationships shape our decisions, bringing us in and out of alignment with our destiny. Choices we make all day long truly matter. They keep our family safe and healthy. They bring us joy or struggle. One decision can launch our purpose forward.
Then our question is, how do we nurture love and choose the highest benefit in each moment? Through our intuitive clarity and inner guidance. This answer may sound obvious, but we’re going to dive into your next big step forward with it!
Decisions are guided by our past experiences and beliefs, which emotionally affects the way we see situations. Our past determines our choices about the present. But to always make choices for our highest benefit requires us to use our full intuitive potential.
Intuition is usually subtle. It’s more quiet than our intellectual process.
Which do you feel guides your decisions stronger, intellect or intuition?
Ideally, all of our decisions would be intuitively motivated. Consider the amount of faith required to trust your intuition over the rational intellect. How would your life be different?
Our intuition may be quiet, but we can learn to turn up the volume so it’s loud and clear.
I’m always getting intuitive ‘hits’ for clients to recommend the best things to them. Recently I guided someone into their full intuitive potential with a single Psychic Retrieval® Session. I had a strong vision that they would love to communicate with spirit and how special it would be for them to feel spirit’s love and healing. We did a Voice Channeling® Session, and the confirmation was strong. They felt it was the best next step for them; feeling spirit’s love was exactly what they needed next. I’ve seen it work out so often that I never question my intuition with clients!
Using all four intuitive qualities together to make decisions gives us the whole picture. Using all four means we feel and know the meaning of vision and understand it’s deeper purpose. With this full spectrum interpretation, we can take clear action.
Often times people feel, “I have a vision, but I don’t know what to do with it.” Opening your full intuitive spectrum, fills in the missing questions of who, what, when, why and HOW.
Consider decisions in your life that may come up for you or loved ones such as:
• How do I heal this physical ailment?
• What is the best diet and physical health routine for my body?
• Do I let my teenager go to that party?
• What is the best school for my child?
• How do I improve the intimacy and connection with my husband or wife?
• What is it my child needs from me to improve their behavior and be on path with their purpose?
• Should I take this job or start a different career path?
• What is my purpose, and the next step for me to take today?
• How can I have this conversation with a family member so we feel greater peace, love and harmony together?
Now think about what percentage of your decisions are intuitive and what part is intellectual. Usually it’s a mix of both.
Would your life feel more peaceful if you used intuition for all of your decisions?
Would you like to increase the intuitive strength of your decision-making, and if so how much?
The power of your intuition is here for you now. Let us know if you want to activate your full intuitive spectrum. We’re here to help with guided sessions and different levels of certification training.
New Three® University Intuitive Training is Psychic Retrieval®
Your family is your greatest opportunity to be a leader. And when you have the respect of being a leader in your family, you can be a leader anywhere – in the office, with friends, in your community, and even globally.
Parents and teachers have the most profound role in leading children by exemplifying soul-based living. Simply put, this is living your life through the perspective of love.
Soul-based living is teaching children that instead of judging and reacting, we are choosing to observe and learn. Soul-based living is choosing to love and accept, no matter what, unconditionally. Because after all, real love is without conditions.
As a young child, I experienced feeling judged by my family with their own belief systems about what a “good girl” and “bad girl” is. Later as a teenager, I felt unaccepted and was often considered to be the “black sheep” of my family. My parents didn’t know what to do with me because I was different. For me, one of the saddest things was not being understood by my parents, and therefore feeling unaccepted and unloved. Many children and adults have had a similar experience and are still struggling with the feeling of not having a place in this world. Understanding is a soul-based quality.
In society today, we begin to experience soul-based living by being aware of ourselves. When we are aware of our thoughts and feelings, we have the power to choose differently. When thinking and taking action from the ego-based perspective, or conditional love, it helps us to become aware of the discomfort we feel and then choose different thoughts and actions.
By teaching children the soul-based perspective, they will align with unconditional love and their behavior will change!!
This is a huge leap forward in our way of life. Let’s celebrate leading our children and loved ones into releasing the unconscious, reactionary, judgmental behavior that has caused so much pain and misunderstanding. These new loving patterns of consciousness bring the most beautiful freedom to manifest the type of family and life we truly desire.
We create an easier future for the generations to come, by creating new conversations in our household today.
• How would my loving soul see this situation?
• How would my loving soul see this person?
• What would my loving soul choose to do?
The individual path of learning this process in our family, empowers each family member to find their own path into greater love and soul-based living. The family unifies and peace is felt.
Soul-Based™ Leadership is a conscious approach to life. Empower Our Children describes soul-based living and how to bring this experience into your family, classroom and community.
Together we are creating a loving, soul-based world!
New Three® University Soul-Based™ Leadership Training is Five Accomplishments® Coaching
Out of all our intuitive qualities, intuitive seeing is the quality that makes life magical. Without intuitive seeing we would have a level of awe and depth taken away. Life would seem bland and plain.
By visualizing our goals and believing in them, they manifest incredibly stronger than otherwise.
There are visions in our minds right now. There must be, for our inner vision is co-creating our reality along with our other three intuitive qualities of hearing, feeling and knowing.
For me prophetic visions are very practical. We’re able to see future outcomes based on actions in the moment. This has helped me a lot recently with making life and death decisions regarding my mother’s terminal illness. Months ago, she was rushed to the emergency room and the doctor told me I had to make a decision and both decisions have an equal high risk of death. Using prophetic vision, I was able to follow each decision through to the end result and she pulled through wonderfully, and hasn’t been back to the hospital since.
Clairvoyance and prophecy is incredibly practical and something we should all take advantage of.
We create our desires with our visions and we also receive information from our spiritual guidance through visions.
The goal is to align our human desires with our higher spiritual visions to create our soul’s purpose. Like intuitive seeing, our other three intuitive qualities may be used to receive information from Spirit as well as create our human desires.
In most cases, to interpret the significance of a vision, we must use one or all of the other three intuitive qualities. If we have a vision in our sleep, it is because it’s easier for Spirit to share with us during our sleep, when the mind is not in the way, versus when we are awake. Spiritual visions help us understand our current, past and future life experiences.
When you receive visions, embrace them and whatever emotions they may stir up in you. Manipulating visions received by Spirit does not serve you. It interrupts the clear message being sent.
Below is a technique you can practice to help you interpret your visions. Understanding your visions helps you see your purpose with clarity and better manifest it.
Vision Interpretation (Very Simplified)
You can also practice opening your intuitive seeing quality through the following suggestions, further described in Age of the Soul:
Once you start practicing these exercises, you may begin to see vibrations, colors in auras, foresee the future receiving future prophecy, and much more. You will open yourself up to a whole new perspective of the world!
Your greatest, fastest way to activate and open all four of your intuitive qualities, including seeing or clairvoyance, is through our Psychic Retrieval® Program. You can decide if a guided session or a training is your best next step.
New Three® University Trainings to develop your intuition is Psychic Retrieval®
Spirit, how do you recommend people build self-confidence, and not be distracted or concerned by what others think?
Through Melissa Voice Channeling®, spirit shared:
Building one's confidence is a unique idea because it requires you to be steadfast in your beingness.
Your beingness is a combined experience of your soul connection, clarity of one's truth or position on the matter, and ultimately a greater wisdom of the situation and moment you are in.
The fact that you exist is the only proof you need to value and accept yourself. You are alive and so it is your birthright to feel confident, from your first moment in this world to your last.
Babies are born confident and will continue to know confidence if raised in alignment with universal laws and natural, balanced living. This is called soul-based living.
Lack is not real, yet it is perceived. But that doesn’t mean it's true.
You are already everything that you need to be. Each person incarnated is complete and perfect, even if lack is perceived.
Why then is lack perceived? When your connection to your soul and understanding of your eternal nature is doubted, it becomes a direct reflection of doubting your life and life circumstances.
Your goal must be to strengthen your soul connection and explore your greater spiritual self, and by doing so, you will believe in the fact that you are eternal, everlasting, with no ending.
The confidence that you exist and always will exist, forever, reflects confidence into your current life, allowing the worldly disadvantages to be seen in a different way.
Then lack becomes opportunity. Blaming and judging become understanding and observation of this beautiful and intricate physical life. You become initiated into your soul's perspective in a deeper, more grounded way than you have ever felt before.
From this newfound freedom, you hold your head up high, breathe air deeply into your body and celebrate this existence. You celebrate love, union of fellow souls, collaboration, shared ideas, communicating, and communion.
Each individual is unique and extraordinary. Remind each other of being extraordinary. No one is ordinary. Every soul is vast in its experience of love and creativity.
There is so much within every incarnated soul.
Encourage people to deeply observe their inner self, to see the truth of progress and knowledge that the soul wants to share.
Everything you need is here.
Allow your soul to inspire confidence in yourself.
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You are clairvoyant. You’re also clairaudient, clairsentient, and claircognizant. What I’m saying here is you have all four intuitive or psychic senses: intuitive seeing, hearing, feeling, and knowing.
People believe they’re born with only one or two psychic senses, and this is very limiting. It limits confidence, our perception of the unseen world and therefore dampens everyday life experiences. Re-imagine what it would feel like to thrive with all four psychic senses, because all four are already on within you. It’s just a matter of recognizing it. Here’s how.
You do have an intuitive order, which means you tend to have one or two senses that are stronger than the others, but you do still have all four. First, you need to identify this order. You may be aware of one of your strongest or weakest intuitive senses, but you need the full picture, so you can start exercising the ones that are weaker. We want all of our clairs to be equal in strength. Intuitive Charting™ can help you see this and understand your order in our” Psychic Retrieval® Training.
Then we get you into the intuitive gym to strengthen your weakest one, and you continue this process ongoing until all four are super strong. Here are a few things to think about that will get the process started for you right now.
“I don’t see, but I want to see” is something I hear consistently from clients in my one-on-one Coaching Sessions. I show them that they can see, and already are, and it opens up a deeper, richer experience because our intuitive seeing gives depth to the other senses.
I understand the challenge people can sometimes have with their four senses. One night when I was sixteen, I closed down my inner seeing when I saw my deceased grandfather in my room. It scared me, because I didn’t understand the loving spirit like I do now. In truth, there was nothing to be frightened of at the time, but I didn’t know that, after being confused by scary movies and twisted cartoons. I declared in that moment out loud, “I don’t ever want to see anything ever again!” After that I did continue to feel and know psychically, although my seeing became very weak and unnoticeable to me.
We do this for different reasons. Some people close down their seeing because they saw something traumatic in their family that automatically shut it down to protect them from remembering what they saw. Part of intuitive seeing is accessing past visions of experiences. There are many reasons intuitive seeing is shut down and they are all located in our subconscious mind, which means they can be opened back up.
It wasn’t until the age of twenty-five that I declared that I wanted my seeing open again, and it opened. At the same time, my spiritual guides provided me ways to open and use all four of my psychic senses. God-The Source describes this in Age of the Soul. I am greatly appreciative of the capacity to see, feel, hear and know the world in the most expansive way a human can, with a full intuitive potential realized.
Having your full intuitive potential realized is meant for you and every person, because it’s how we’re meant to live. It is the world we’re moving into, where every human being is born, raised, and lives with their expansive intuitive awareness through their entire life.
Here is a solution you can consider right now to reopen your full intuitive spectrum:
1. If everyone’s born with a full intuitive potential, and you’re not experiencing your full potential, then something happened during your life to close it down.
2. Make a decision if you are interested in knowing why you dimmed one or more of your psychic senses. This is a journey of personal revelation and transformation that will be greatly focused on experiences in this life, thoughts, and belief systems, that must be illuminated.
3. Ask for and receive support to help you move back into alignment with your full psychic ability. This will change your life, so decide if you welcome the new way you will see the world with your intuition fully open.
This state of intuitive thriving allows you to access the infinite knowledge of Creation in a very practical way that helps you make better decisions for yourself and your loved ones. Because you have access to the past, present, and probable future, you can always make a better choice with clearer options.
The Source gave us an incredibly effective technique, so you can realize your full intuitive potential. In our Psychic Retrieval session, you are opened up to all four psychic senses. You experience your seeing (clairvoyance) to see auras and visions, your hearing (clairaudience) to hear an inner voice and understand what you’re perceiving, your feeling (clairsentience) to feel emotions and intentions, and your knowing (claircognizance) to receive the bigger picture about a person or situation. These sessions will put you on the fast track.
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People will transition in our lives, because that’s part of life.
Sometimes we do and sometimes we don’t understand why it happens, or why it happens to this person at this time. But there is always a reason for every soul’s transition into the Nonphysical Universe.
Something that we want to keep in mind is that with every transition there is a unique story behind it and illuminating the story can be incredibly healing for those that knew the person.
Through that story comes a familiarity with the soul itself, the vibration, the expression of the soul of the person.
My father, Dave, transitioned last week, at 67 years old. In the initial minutes I received the phone call from my Uncle about his transition, I felt my dad with me and he spoke to me in my mind.
In the coming days, Dave spoke through my voice and shared how his eyes are wide open now. With his expansive soul vision, he sees how much myself and my other family members had gone to great lengths to help him in his final years. He expressed his deep love for me. I could feel it.
The experience now with his soul essence is quite different, and way more expansive and loving, than a person is capable of when they’re physical.
The relationship you have with a soul after its transition can be rewarding for you as closure, continuing the relationship with that soul, and experiencing a healing relationship you never had with the person now through their soul.
Without the confines of the body and the emotional and mental energy fields, and the aspects of the life that make us human, the spirit or soul is free and unlimited to express its love and support in miraculous ways.
Openness to following a loved one’s transition to spirit means to follow, quite literally, the new expression and vibration that they are as spirit and learning to live with it and them in a new exciting way.
The soul may often come to us as the form and use the voice of the person we knew, but without the limitations and conditions from physical life. The soul can express love and support you abundantly without limitation.
My favorite part of a transition is that it’s like a new relationship has been found, and those who are open to finding it, experience a version of their loved one that is much more than when they were human.
When most people communicate with their deceased loved ones, they ask, “Are you okay?” Truly the clear answer is always unequivocally, “YES, I am amazing.” Because our loved ones are not encumbered by the challenges of the physical life that were present before they transitioned.
You may choose to instead ask your deceased loved one questions like:
1. Can you share about the purpose of your transition, and the timing and circumstances around it?
2. What would you like me to know that you may not have shared with me when you were physical?
This will illuminate an understanding for you that will create profound peace and healing.
If you don’t have your own clear communication process with your spiritual guidance and deceased loved ones, join us for Voice Channeling® so you can have these questions and any other questions you have, answered for you.
New Three® University offers the experience to communicate with your Deceased Loved One in a Voice Channeling® Training
Souls are choosing to reincarnate hundreds or thousands of times because of one main human imbalance.
We will identify and solve this imbalance, so you may feel better now and save your soul possibly hundreds of lifetimes. You can actually eliminate the need to reincarnate.
20 years of my life, from age five to twenty-five, was a very ungrounded time for me. I began school and interacting with the world in a larger way, which led me to an imbalance in my energy, causing an ungrounded energetic state of being.
I'm not sure exactly how much of those 20 years will not be included in the life experiences my soul takes back with it, but because I was ungrounded, or not present, there is a portion of those experiences not counted by my soul.
At age twenty-five, I learned about this necessity of being grounded, completely and fully, and I began teaching it to others, so they could have all of their experiences count and be used by their soul.
This one teaching is the greatest gift we can give ourselves and others, saving us possibly hundreds of lifetimes to repeat experiences we weren't present for in the first place. Getting Grounded is Accomplishment One of our Five Accomplishments® Coaching Sessions and in-depth Trainings.
If you've noticed yourself saying something like, "I'm not coming back again, this human experience is too much. This is my last time." This one teaching on being grounded will help you more than anything else because your soul counts the experiences you are present for and therefore does not need to repeat them again.
People can spend hundreds of lifetimes attempting to receive an experience they were not present for the first time they experienced it. It's analogous to expecting a high grade at school when you were not present for class. You were not present, so you did not have the experience of the material in class and therefore do not receive credit for it.
Being grounded is a purely energetic experience where your total consciousness, meaning mental, emotional and physical energies are present in-body (where your body is). This happens mostly by accepting your total human experience inside and out.
When one is ungrounded, their consciousness is in some way not present in-body. This is mostly from not accepting their experience of life.
Grounded and ungrounded energy is a huge, unknown area of personal transformation. It is mostly not understood. By mastering this teaching and experience, you will master the reincarnation process.
Here's a few examples of Grounded vs. Ungrounded:
• Alert vs. Spaced-out
• Accepting vs. Rejecting
• Concentrated vs. Scattered
• Balanced Energy vs. High & Low Energy
• Centered vs. Drifting
A few pointers to Get Grounded:
Notice the moments you are experiencing ungrounded symptoms and choose to come into your grounded state of being by using your breath. We have several grounding exercises, some that are a few seconds and some longer grounding meditations given in Age of the Soul. Included in this book is a full description on grounding and why our soul wants to be present for this life.
It's important to mention that the soul does not see a better or worse approach to life, because it has as many lifetimes as it wants or needs to accomplish its goals and experiences. But we can see it as more purposeful to be grounded and present for the experiences the soul wants to have. Please remember, there is absolutely no judgment by spirit or your soul on the reincarnation process.
We fully explore how to get grounded, and identify over 30 symptoms of being ungrounded, in our Five Accomplishments Coaching program offered to you as private sessions or a full in-depth training experience.
God-The Source has shared with us that our first priority is to Get Grounded. Let's seize every moment by being fully present and create the best opportunity for our soul!
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Mistrusting is our largest block in the way of true unconditional love.
We call stepping into unconditional love, the initiation of the soul, because when we dissolve the mistrust, your spiritual light floods into your body, mind and feelings, revealing in every instance the path of greatest benefit and love.
It can happen in one instant with just one choice. It's not always easy to choose unconditional love and this is why:
Unconditional love is not a space of the mind, so it can be confusing, leading to mistrust of it. Confusing by those observing you from the outside and confusing for the one that has crossed the threshold into unconditional love. The mind does not feel in control, because the mind cannot make sense of it. It is not a place of mental rationale, mostly.
It’s a soul sense and understanding, if you will, that’s led by an inner knowing from a connection to universal truth.
Jumping up your vibration into unconditional love can happen with a jump in awareness about yourself, on a microscopic level, starting with such stirring considerations as:
• "I don’t want to love this person causing me intentional unease."
• "I don’t want to be one with this person, because I don't like their vibration or the feeling I have when I'm with them."
• "They are negative."
• "They aren't loving, so why should I be?"
We have our own version of disconnecting, separating statements about people that bother us.
But unconditional love is about unifying, and it's not always clear to the mind why it's helpful to take action or what action is best to take.
That’s why having the tools, these useful soul abilities, reduces confusion around taking the best steps, when it appears you are stepping blindly. They provide an understanding that can seem unreasonable to your mind, and a greater benefit where something sometimes feels sacrificed.
The pursuit of empowering yourself with your soul tools gives you direct perception using the sight, mind, ears and heart of your soul.
It's at this point, that your own human personality takes a step back and gives the soul the wheel to drive.
Eventually over time the personality does become more comfortable with the way the soul chooses to drive, because the personality sees it works out for the best over and over again.
But initially handing over control can feel like a struggle, and the way that you do it is through your strength of your connection with spirit, your sight of intuition, and your healing and manifesting that comes with radical awareness of self.
Ask yourself the questions today,
1. What is a stretch for me in loving myself more, and what would it look like to turn over the driving to my soul?
2. What is your greatest pain or challenge and how would that be different if your soul was driving, with its eyes, ears, mind and heart?
Consider this, journal about it today, or go into meditation to explore this exercise. Enjoy!
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Anchoring your soul’s voice physically actually helps it manifest more clearly.
Channeling a book from your soul, or even directly from your higher power, is of the most fulfilling experiences and infinitely important, because it solidifies a real, true compass of energetic direction and wisdom that is beyond what our individual self may have knowledge of…and it’s not just for a select few, it’s an ability you have too.
I use channeled writing to bring through my books, currently published and available including Age of the Soul and Empower Our Children. The experience is incredible, invigorating and tremendously healing.
When I was called to channel my first book, it did not make sense to me. I got D’s in English class, because it was my least favorite subject. I had no idea what I would write.
I said, “Really God, me?” Source told me, “Just write.” So I did, initially channeling my first book in two weeks.
I had fears, as anyone does in the beginning. I thought, “What if it’s not clear and correct?” “What if people don’t like it?” But Source said, “Just trust and the words will come.” …and the words came abundantly! Then, after taking several months to correct spelling, grammar and format it into a beautiful physical book, it was done.
Channeling a book is more than a possibility. It is a potential within everyone!
In my private session work I’ve had the privilege of guiding clients through the process of writing, from the very beginning to bestseller status, and most of them being first-time authors.
Books reach out to future generations as manuals for knowledge and wisdom, for documenting life’s inspiration and new possibilities. The ability for a soul to leave a physical legacy like a book is a gift to the world.
How is your soul contributing through you right now and what would your soul like to contribute in this life?
You don’t have to know the answer yourself. This contribution can be clarified and established through the process of channeled writing, where your soul and spiritual guidance can directly share its essence into written words on the page. Your soul’s legacy of this lifetime can be ignited by channeling a book.
Channeling a book can seem intimidating, but it’s actually something everyone can do.
The satisfaction of birthing a compilation of energetic feelings and vision into words is indescribable for most people who’ve gone through this process. Channeling a book provides grounded, clear direction to accelerate forward in life. It can provide key next pieces of what you need to manifest your life purpose.
For teachers, books provide teachings, and for speakers, authentic content to speak about. Often books are a way for us to tap into our own soul lessons. This is true for me with my first two books. Where even today I’m learning from them, over a decade after first writing them. My books are what I teach to the public now, and our training techniques directly reference them.
Do you feel interested, when you think about channeling your own book? Contact me if this resonates and we can take the next step together to channel your own book.
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Of your four intuitive qualities, the most influential for invoking spiritual healing is your Intuitive Knowing, also known as Claircognizance. It will bring you a clearer and stronger spiritual healing, as well as increase the likelihood of God-The Source intervening on your behalf in what is called a Miracle.
Miracles happen when there is an instant, permanent change that can only be granted by the Source and will bend and break universal laws, depending on the miracle that is being granted.
An example of a miracle physical healing is with someone on life support, given a small chance of living because an organ is damaged, and they are instantly helped and changed, being healed of that ailment. This usually amazes doctors who can’t see a logical reason for such a spontaneous healing, but you do hear stories of this or perhaps have experienced this with someone close to you.
I’ve experienced a couple miracles in my life. My physical teacher, Katherine Beck, who I met when she was 82 (she crossed into the Spirit World at 88 in 2008) was a miracle healer.
One time she was in front of a woman in a wheelchair who had a neurological disorder preventing her from standing or walking. Katherine, with 100% confidence called in the power of ‘God’ to heal her and the power came into the room, the woman was instantly healed, got up and walked. This was a miracle because the Source intervened and granted this healing.
A similar instant healing happened at a wellness conference I was speaking at. In the audience was a lovely woman with extreme arthritis, debilitating and painful, not allowing her to stand. Source told me in my mind that she was to receive a miracle healing, right in the middle of my talk. Spirit speaking in my mind is a form of mediumship, and they do that with me in every event and session to help facilitate a great experience. I asked her to invite God into her.
With my intuitive knowing, my confidence was 100% (something that took years to clear and strengthen). Because of my high confidence in the healing manifesting and the woman’s openness to the experience of spiritual healing, the power of Source dropped into her and she was instantly healed. She acknowledged feeling buzzing in her body and that her pain was gone. She stood up and said she had not felt that wonderful in many years. Participants sitting next to her even felt the powerful energy, because the power of Source is miraculous, and one never forgets it.
The greatest step you can personally take to cultivate your role in spiritual healing is to grow your confidence and intuitive knowing, together, and develop a strong, powerful relationship with the Source and spirit.
To maintain clarity of what a spiritual healing is, technically, it is a healing performed by spirit, a word we use to mean higher power. A spiritual healing is not a psychic healing which is performed by us humans, channeling energy through our hands, eyes or body. With a spiritual healing, we are participating and not ‘doing’, we are observing and guiding the experience, but we are not delivering the energy of the experience. With spiritual healing, spirit is bringing the energy into the space and it affects everyone, but specifically the person it is intended for. A spiritual healer does not channel the energy, but more so they ground the consciousness that the Source is bringing energy into the space and healing the individual.
Spiritual healing requires a humble, open relationship with your higher power, that is tangible for you on a day-to-day level. It takes training and time to develop such an ability to participate with the Source in this way, but it is incredibly worthwhile.
New Three® University Training to cultivate spiritual healing is Voice Channeling®, and to strengthen your intuition, Psychic Retrieval®
As you move forward to realize your most fulfilling life and abundant health, accessing your untapped potential for healing is extremely important.
It could be said that there are three main ways to influence your life and cultivate a wellbeing that adds decades to your life, slowing or even stopping the aging process.
These three ways represent the three universes, the: Source, Nonphysical, and Physical. We're going to introduce these ways to help you master your energy, so you can live fully and purposefully.
The Physical Universe represents using your mind to reprogram your thoughts, so you can refocus your mental and emotional energies to manifest the most abundant life. We call this soul-based living, because ideally it's aligning your emotions and thoughts with your soul's true loving perspective. When this happens, an untapped potential is released.
The Nonphysical Universe represents focusing psychic or universal energy, because it is within every point in the universe, accessible to every human being, all the time. This energy can be directed for healing, but on a basic level it’s used to change reality, directed by your thoughts and emotions. The mastery of psychic energy requires a mastery of your four psychic abilities, simply known as intuitive seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing.
These nonphysical senses are much more valuable to use than just perceiving. They are also used for focusing and channeling energy in a particular way to produce a result, and so psychic energy is greatly involved in manifesting your purpose and dreams, as well as perfect health.
The Source Universe, or in other words the God realm, is from which everything came and to which everything returns, however this vibration also is everything and is within everything (the Universal Laws of Oneness and Individuality can be greatly experienced with the Source Universe). The power of this universe lies in cultivating your own relationship with the Source or the name you call this higher power. Because channeling spiritual energy is asked for by us, a soul in human form, but it is brought to us by our higher power.
This call and response has been referred to as a miracle healing or miracle moment, because the degree of influence on our reality, when spiritual energy is involved of the highest spirit and Source, is without boundaries. The great Source of All Divinity knows the highest benefit of a situation and when the ‘miracle’ energy is to be shared with us.
Therefore, spiritual healings are not as common as one believes, as they are granted by the Source, by Divinity, and simply requested by us. The path to anchoring a more powerful request, and a more open ability to channel that response when it is given by the Source, is cultivating a true oneness with the Divine.
These three universes and our capacity to capture the potential they hold in connection to our lives and purposes is provided in our three certifications Five Accomplishments® Coaching, Psychic Retrieval® and Voice Channeling®, where the sole purpose of these techniques is to unleash and ground that power within us all.
This journey of mastery and discovery is a journey of one's life, a journey that we are all on. The difference then is the ease and pace at which one may move forward in embracing and capturing their greatest potential. New Three® University programs are designed to provide you a blueprint for this journey and path ahead.
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You are not alone, ever, and we're not speaking about the lofty way it's often talked about with God and spirit guides always being 'there'. This support goes far beyond a 'presence' and bridges the gap into the physical world to help you with your practical challenges and everyday choices of life.
There will be a point in your life—Invite It In Now—when you will decide to bring the relationship with your higher power into a tangible place, where spirit can provide you with answers, solutions and your deepest soul desires. Because in those deepest desires, lies the forward path into your life purpose and accomplishing it.
You see, the energetic direction of where you’re meant to go and who you’re meant to travel with is always knocking at the door. It's always tapping you on the shoulder. . .and you feel it. For some people, they actually see it in vision. Others know it with confidence. For some it's subtle and others it's strong.
Let's look at how you can increase your ease and confidence through the challenges and choices you have right now in your life. We’re going to look at how to receive your deepest soul desires from your higher power.
When it was my time to know my deepest soul desires, initially they came as a very subtle 'knowing' of a desire to understand the Universe. This subtle impression from spirit, led me into the direction of exploring college courses in various fields. But in that pursuit, I hit a wall and could only go so far with the traditional understandings.
What happened next seemed like an accident. An explosion that damaged my hearing took me off my passion and pursuit of music and left me asking, "What's next?" My feeling led me to a friend and she led me to a book, and that book opened me up to a knowing that if spirit can speak to other people, spirit can speak to me too.
Two months later the greatest, strongest knowing of spirit came to me and shared my innermost desire and purpose with me—and it's all come true. For hours I was given strong impressions from spirit of my soul's desires and the purpose that it would live in this life. It continues to amaze and surprise me. To this day, I go to my higher power to know the desire of my soul and it makes my life so much easier.
Years ago, part of my soul's desire that spirit gave to me was that everyone on Earth is meant to receive their soul's desire from their higher power too. And that I’m meant to help them do it.
Today we have New Three® University that offers our spiritual communication, mediumship training called Voice Channeling®, where we’ve had 100% success connecting people to their higher power clearly and directly. I'm grateful that my higher power subtly contacted me, then strongly showed me, because I asked and because I was open to it. And spirit wants you to ask and be open to being shown your soul's most expansive desire too.
Many of you have pieces, and some of you are confidently moving forward with your soul's desire. I encourage you to humbly ask spirit for a deeper and even more expansive desire from your soul. Ask for its purpose and direction today. The energy is here. It's with you. It's with me, and in this article. Let’s co-create this magical moment together!
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Sometimes when we choose to believe that life should be a happy, loving, comfortable experience, it can limit us from receiving everything this Universe has for us and what is most purposeful for our soul.
Deep down not a single person would consciously prefer to be uncomfortable. The issue is not about whether you would prefer to be comfortable or uncomfortable, because both will happen. The accomplishment here is being able to see an equal value in both.
By valuing both equally, we can eventually evolve into preferring them equally, without judgement, based on what is most purposeful for our soul.
Then, our inner dialogue changes from, “What makes me comfortable?” to “What is serving and supporting my soul's purpose?”
Comfort and discomfort do not define you as a good person or bad person, or an ego-based or soul-based person.
Some of the most loving viewpoints and actions are uncomfortable, because it's courageous to love. For many it is hard to love, especially when that love is being judged and not accepted by other people. Your most uncomfortable feelings come when your love is not accepted by others, especially with those who are closest to you.
This spiritual evolution as a human being is important, because if a person decides that comfort indicates that they have grown and are ‘there’, then the person is either ungrounded—out of touch with themselves and reality—or the person has isolated themselves to limit their discomforts as much as possible. Neither is helpful or purposeful to a soul's journey as a human being.
A soul’s hope is for the human personality to find the courage to go out into the world and love stronger. As a result, they contribute to and accelerate the creation of world peace.
Your knowledge will only take you so far before you interconnect your mind, emotions and body with your soul, allowing you to experience your connection with all beings across all realms and Universes.
Let the concept of unification encourage you to begin unifying with the most difficult, uncomfortable parts of yourself.
Believe that your path to greater joy and greater comfort is always going to be a path of personal transformation, each moment of every day, for the rest of your life.
It is that movement and momentum forward that increases a deeper sense of spiritual satisfaction.
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Long ago when souls first incarnated into the human on Earth, there needed to be beings that would oversee their entire life from birth until death. These beings are called Primary Guides, because they are the first and last being to have a direct influence over your lifetime.
Primary guides have been called by many names: Angels, Guardian Angels, Gatekeepers, God. You may call this influence on your life any name you are comfortable with.
You only have one primary guide and their main responsibility is to execute your soul's plan that it created before you incarnated. To achieve your soul's goals requires bringing in secondary guides on a daily basis.
The difference between a primary guide and a secondary guide isn't based on their evolution, experiences or even expertise. Simply, the primary guide has chosen to be with one human for their entire life, and a secondary guide has chosen to influence them for a duration of time that is directly dependent upon the benefit to and fulfillment of the human's needs.
Secondary guides could be helping a human with health, career, relationships, or any day-to-day need, and their help could be useful for moments, minutes or years.
Every human has more than one secondary guide at any given time. And they have also been called by various names.
You don't choose the being that guides you; it is the being that chooses you. So, when you call out and expect some name of some being to come, the being that actually comes is the one who can help you the most.
Often times when you think you need a particular name, and call on that being to help you, the actual being who comes to help can be different. This mistaken identity would happen because of one's limited acceptance of the greater spiritual realm and assistance available.
If a guide comes to help us, it is because they are the best being to help. It is extremely valuable to trust this process so you can feel confident that your highest benefit is always being received from your guides.
Therefore, when you put a call out for information or healing or assistance of any kind, be open to the being that may answer your call and help you in the most effective, purposeful manner.
Get to know the names and identities of the beings that help you and how they feel, so you can cultivate friendships with them just as you have friendships with other human beings.
You are meant to have friendships with nonphysical beings.
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Genuine spiritual relationships are not as rare as some might think. Soul mates, twin flames, life partners, marriage. . . We are going to clarify the difference and similarities.
It is every person's destiny to be in relationship with another person. Relationships are our greatest opportunity to receive the spiritual experiences our soul wanted to have when it planned and envisioned this most beneficial lifetime.
Humans are not naturally meant to be alone or isolated; it goes against how the Source designed the incarnation experience on Earth of a soul existing in the human body. Most people feel drawn to be with someone, as a partner in life, for the short term or long term.
The length a relationship is purposeful, is solely based on how the relationship serves experiences that both souls wanted to receive. This is called a mutual benefit on a spiritual level. We don't always see or know what that benefit is when we're in the middle of it, but it helps us to consider indirect benefits or ones that aren't obvious.
There's no greater goal than to honor the journey of human contact and interaction, especially the mate that a human chooses for a long-term relationship.
However, two souls destined to meet does not mean that the two souls are soul mates or that the two souls have even incarnated together previously. It simply means that there was a purpose for them meeting. It's helpful to remain connected to the deeper value of a relationship.
Life partners, someone who you are meant or believe you're meant to journey life with for an extended period of time, quite possibly your entire life, has tremendous value in presenting you with spiritual and personal transformation, mentally, emotionally and physically. And you provide the same to them.
Whether a couple chooses to call this marriage or twin flame or any other label, is supportive to integrating the commitment and depth of the relationship.
However, true soul mates have more of a familial relationship, being birthed from the Source as a soul group at the same time with a bond that is long-term, spanning all lifetimes and the entirety of their soul's existence, providing opportunities to be life partners or not.
Soul mates will always be involved in the life or existence of their fellow soul mate. This involvement can take a number of forms, such as serving as a nonphysical spiritual guide during the lifetime of another soul mate.
The most important point to cultivate understanding of your soul mate is not asking the question, "Where are they on the planet and when will I meet them?" But simply ask, "What is their role right now in the greater realm of existence?"
For the person you are meant to journey life with right now, the question to ask is, "Who is the most purposeful person for me to spend my life with, and who can support my soul in achieving its experiences?"
This person may be a soul mate, if your soul mate is incarnated at this time, or it may be a soul that’s not your soul mate who you've incarnated and existed with previously, or a soul that is more or less new in this type of human interaction with you on Earth. Let that part be revealed after you meet them, over time, through meditation and the natural evolution of experiences together.
New Three® University Training helps you cultivate purposeful, soul-based partnerships with Five Accomplishments® Coaching and one-on-one private Spiritual Life Coaching sessions to draw in your partner and create harmonious relationships with Jason Nelson
High emotions can greatly reduce happiness and intimacy, leading to pain and suffering.
Charged-up relationships feel volatile. How do we turn a triggering situation with someone into an empowering opportunity to feel abundant peace and happiness?
The short answer is to love yourself, which allows you to love others, but this is how you get there:
My relationships with close family and my life partner is highly emotional at times. We know this is part of being human in today's world. We can experience heightened emotions with loved ones.
People show a spectrum of love, and that is what we really want to remember when understanding the path to feeling more love. Our love is expressed clearer sometimes than others.
Holidays, big transitions, and differences of opinion, often shine light on the parts of us that express unclear love.
At the seven-year point in a relationship, many couples have talked about it being a point of challenge.
You may know that Melissa is my personal and professional partner, and we experienced this pivotal seven-year time as our most *challenging* and *opportunistic* year recently. We asked the question, "What is our next step?"
Our answer was, "Embrace the extreme light illuminating the unclear love, breathe, feel, hold hands, and move through it."
Within this most challenging time, we faced the opportunity to love more abundantly, and decided to get married. We focused more energy on the clear love, so that the unclear love could be understood and recreated.
Relationships create this opportunity for all of us, but so do career transitions, financial setbacks, as well as health crisis. We have so many opportunities each day and year to see how we are expressing love unclearly, so we can choose to love stronger and more abundantly.
It's important to keep as much, or more energy, on the clear ways we express love. We look at who, how and when we express clear love. This process aligns us with 'soul-based love', or true, real love.
This journey into expressing clear love and the path of soul-based living is absolutely a patient, courageous journey. It is not easy all the time. In fact, the soul-based path is always challenging us. But it's how we choose to experience these challenges that make the big difference of whether we feel pain or peace.
Tips to express more abundant clear love:
1. Pause and be patient, because it's healthy to step away to breathe and understand the situation.
2. Ask for professional help. Friends are great, but biased, untrained advice can actually make it worse for you. I've seen this unprofessional advice break up marriages with children and take people off path.
3. Join a community of like-minded individuals who want to pursue soul-based living with you!
New Three® University Training to express love clearly, Five Accomplishments® Coaching and one-on-one private sessions with Jason Nelson
Manifesting a purposeful life is more important than manifesting a long life.
Refocusing our underlying motivation is how we can better create our soul's destiny!
Consider pivoting from, "May you have a long and happy life," to "May you live a purposeful and soul-based life."
Our soul's viewpoint is not to extend future moments, but to be present for this moment, here, now.
Our soul sees the length of a life not as better or worse, but instead asks the questions at the completion of its life, "What opportunities did I seize? Did I choose to love and accept, when it was most difficult? Did I contribute what I intended to share with the Earth?"
The soul does not consider how its body could have looked younger or stayed healthier, unless of course it was related to one of its other objectives. Taking care of oneself is certainly a form of self-love. It is important, but...
Mainstream culture is fixated on living long and looking young. Health and longevity is an incredible goal, but not at the expense of your soul's life experiences, the very destiny it envisioned before this life.
Soul-based living embraces the qualities of our soul, such as patience, detachment and the pursuit of understanding, which allows for an expansive experience of accepting one's life circumstances each moment. Whether those life circumstances seem like a step backward or a step forward, embracing and accepting them anchors you into the present moment.
God-The Source has taught me through the experience of the Five Accomplishments®, how to identify and cultivate passion for my soul's goals in this life. To be able to look at the resistance of my human self and use the alignment with my soul to step through it. Most importantly, not to ever sacrifice being connected to myself in the present moment. Being grounded and present in this moment is our highest and first priority.
Three things you can do right now to help manifest your soul's destiny:
1. See yourself as the eternal soul with a true destiny, and imagine how your patient, loving soul would approach each moment. Learn soul-based living.
2. Identify the human parts of you that are resisting this soul-based approach. These resistant parts are ego-based perspectives.
3. Most of all, embrace, love and accept this moment, so you have the power to choose what to do in the next moment.
I am reminded by God as I am writing this that we take no physical things from this life with us, when we leave this body and life. We simply take the experiences with us, by being present for as many moments as we possibly can.
New Three® University Training to reveal the destiny of your soul naturally, Five Accomplishments® Coaching
Influences are constantly affecting our ability to manifest. Teachers are tapping into higher levels of manifesting: conscious thoughts; then, subconscious thoughts; finally, manifesting beyond the Law of Attraction altogether.
It's likely many people reading this are thinking, how can something be more effective than even the "Law of Attraction"...it's a universal law, isn't it?
The interesting, missed understanding about universal laws, is they mostly govern our physical experience, but there are exceptions, for instance, where the Law of Attraction does not govern our life direction, in the context of focusing our thoughts to manifest something.
Manifesting beyond the Law of Attraction does involve our conscious and subconscious mind, and something else...aligning with our soul's life purpose.
'Soul Manifesting' is an approach to manifesting that is far more effective, in so many ways, than only using 'Mental Manifesting'. They complement each other, and they are quite different at the same time.
Mental Manifesting is the common understanding of focusing thoughts to produce an outcome or manifestation. Powerful, yes. But the issue with this is without a grounded spiritual context, resistance can sometimes be experienced.
You will eliminate resistance and completely move into the 'flow' of your destiny by including Spirit, or Soul Manifesting.
Spirit, or spiritual guides, are assisting us. They are actually redirecting our life path and influencing our choices, based on a template that was created before we incarnated. This template is our mission, itinerary or life destiny. This was created by our soul, the eternal part of us. It has been called a life contract, government of life, or life destiny.
Because every person has spiritual guides, and these spiritual guides honor the most revered Universal Law of Free Will, we can choose to create anything in this life...
But if what you choose as a human being is not in alignment with what your soul chose before it incarnated, your spiritual guides will not assist you in that creation. Your spiritual guides may even attempt to redirect you to what your soul did intend to experience in this life. This redirection happens when people are 'off path', 'feel stuck' or continue to ignore a nagging feeling or intuition to go in a different direction.
By aligning with our soul's vision for this life, which is supported and preferred by our spiritual guides, we open up to the most powerful manifestation that can be known as a human.
This unleashes your fullest potential as a human to manifest what your soul wanted to experience in this life.
Passion, fulfillment and happiness come from this alignment.
Though remember...the journey into this alignment could feel challenging and seem a bit scary at first. Eventually, it is felt as exhilaration and joy, so please be patient with yourself.
You can manifest in a way that is aligned with your soul's plan and purpose. You can produce the greatest experience of your life – start today!
New Three® University Training to align you with your soul's purpose: Five Accomplishments® Coaching and to communicate with your spiritual guidance: Voice Channeling®
Many people don't feel a relationship with spirit. Instead, they feel disconnected. But deep down, everyone wants to feel oneness with spirit.
Questioning if spirit is with you, produces doubtful feelings. Don't question it, or wait for 'proof'. Create your own 'proof'.
Spirit is always with you, each moment of your existence, in a real way.
Be ambitious. Tap into your relationship with spirit. Create your spiritual oneness.
Here's how you can get started.
Some people have a huge epiphany where God shakes the house and flickers the lights, then all of a sudden, a booming voice comes into the mind, "You will follow me sooner or later. This will decide when you begin the next step to mastery. Take my hand..." This was actually my story and I was one of those few people who had a ground-shaking epiphany.
Maybe a fraction of a percent of people have this type of epiphany.
"Why?" is a good question. It's based on what is purposeful for someone and their life.
To create oneness with spirit, do not compare your daily experience to other people's experiences or your own past.
In my case, it was purposeful. It's made for a great story to share and illustrate points. It is what I needed to move into this spiritual life and purpose as a Voice Channeler® for the Divine's teachings in our books and trainings. I'm thankful for it.
But to maintain the strength of oneness that originally came into my life, I had to 'try' and 'work' at it. Spirit may have made it easier for me to feel, see, hear and know them in the first two months, back in 2001, but then I had to carry what we call, 'the power line', which is the ability to hold the strength of energy without spirit's more obvious intervention. From that point forward, it wasn't easy sometimes to maintain the oneness with spirit and spiritual clarity every day. I'm grateful to spirit for giving me our Voice Channeling® training, as it continues to help me develop into deeper oneness with spirit.
The key is creating a lifestyle around being able to maintain oneness with spirit.
Creating a spiritual lifestyle is a step-by-step process of structuring more of our physical, behavioral, mental and emotional experiences to be aligned with our spiritual or soul experience.
New Three University calls this, "Soul-Based Living."
Look at what your connection with spirit is in the moment and the next step you can take to integrate it and enhance it.
1. Start with inviting spirit, or the name you use for your higher power, into simple moments of washing dishes, bathing, driving, sitting, and feel what it's like over time of just simply being with spirit as a feeling.
2. Create the feeling of what you'd imagine it's like to feel spirit and be with God. . .
And remember that You Are Loved Unconditionally and Deserving of Your Own Divine Connection!
New Three® University Training to experience Oneness with Spirit: Voice Channeling® and Soul-Based™ Living: Five Accomplishments® Coaching
Your situation hasn't changed. . . but you've done the work to change your thoughts about the situation and there is no perceived improvement, what do you do?
To break through the areas that seem impossible, you want to understand subconscious healing. And as you read on, you'll learn an exercise to move your inner and outer mountains!
Let's get real with the underlying reason we feel inner conflict: When two or more parts of you are thinking or creating something different, you experience inner conflict.
Changing the sabotaging part of you is not the hard part.
Revealing that conflicting part is often the illusive journey.
Once it's revealed, you can change your mind and everything else falls into place. Your reality is changed and the Universe moves into alignment with it.
To this day, I continue to find hidden parts of myself that are tugging on what my soul wants me to manifest. There are thoughts of unacceptance and thoughts that tell me not to create my greatest health and wellbeing. There are so many conflicting thoughts we all have, but when we identify them, we receive the keys to our next level of freedom and inner peace.
There are many techniques that exist to help you find the sabotaging thoughts. New Three® University has an incredible Subconscious Healing Technique in our Five Accomplishments® Coaching certification.
I want to give you a super simple way to begin identifying and transforming these unwanted thoughts right now!
This exercise is not easy to do because it challenges you to love yourself unconditionally. Believe it or not, loving ourselves unconditionally is not so easy.
Here's how you do it!
When you experience something unwanted, like an argument with someone or a problem at work or home, ask yourself the simple question, "What part of me wanted to feel the way I did about this situation?"
I'm not saying that your situation is something you'd prefer to have happen, or that you agree with what happened. Ask your inner self to be open to learning about why you wanted to experience the feeling that situation brought up for you.
It's normal to think that uncomfortable feelings which situations bring up is not preferred, and this is true for part of you.
The other part of you that is feeling uncomfortable, actually did want to feel that way, or you'd be feeling differently.
Taking responsibility for what we are creating and learning why we want to create it, gives us the power to change it. Typically, when things happen that feel uncomfortable, the last thing someone will acknowledge is they want to feel that way. However, acknowledging that it is how you are choosing to feel is your way to move mountains in your life.
This approach can also work for physical issues, as well as emotional and mental discomforts, because our total thoughts–conscious and subconscious–create our reality.
It's time for you to focus on what you are subconsciously creating, so you can wield your complete power to change your life!
New Three® University Training to experience Soul-Based™ Living: Five Accomplishments® Coaching
You get an "intuition" about something, and then your mind starts building a picture around your intuition, placing your own thoughts, preferences or even fears into it.
Without realizing it, you've turned an initial clear "psychic hit" into a confusing version that can take you off path.
Coloring intuition is extremely common, for different reasons, and everyone has experienced some version of this.
There is one way to make an instant shift, so you can trust your psychic hits. Your intuition is received on a vibratory level that is more subtle than your thoughts, emotions and physical body.
Calming, centering and grounding your total energetic system will allow you to interpret the subtle energy from your intuition. This isn't just a recommendation for clarity, it is a necessity.
This is how you do it. . .
We are emotional beings and our emotions give depth and beauty to our life. However, interpreting your intuition while being emotional will not cultivate the confidence and clarity of your full psychic potential.
Intuition can occasionally initially break through powerful emotions and thoughts, but it's not something we can easily predict. So if you think you received an intuitive impression, the first priority is to calm your mental, emotional and physical energies completely. That way, you can receive the full, clear intuitive message.
Intuitive messages can be very detailed and informative. They include visions, feelings, knowing and thoughts or voices in your mind. To receive the greatest value from your psychic potential means using a technique, meditation or practice to calm, center and ground all of your energies. Then you will have intuitive clarity.
With Melissa and I traveling so often, it has been important for us to remain intuitively clear about where and when we go to our next destination. Just this week we were planning to move to a new location, and by staying intuitively connected, we were able to know—very clearly—that the timing for our move had changed to six months away. If we would have continued to act on the previous information we received about moving, our life and purpose would not have flowed or manifested as productively. Therefore, another reason to stay intuitively clear and connected is because circumstances in the world change sometimes and as a result, your direction will change.
Try this out: Wait to act on your intuitive impression until you open up space in your day to use a meditation or technique to calm your mind, emotion and body completely, so you can have the clearest interpretation of the full intuitive picture. This validating experience will make a huge difference in your life.
I create a few dozen, or more, of these pockets of space every day. You might wonder how to do this in the busyness of your day. I do it in the car, on walks, lunch breaks, even bathroom breaks. This allows me to stay tuned in to the highest benefit and life direction for myself, my loved ones, as well as my clients and students. By cultivating a patient, daily approach with your intuition, you'll feel the deepest confidence with your decision-making.
New Three® University Training that teaches a technique, meditation and practice to calm, center and ground all of your energies to receive intuitive clarity is Psychic Retrieval®
Have you felt that you are sensitive to people and situations?
Looking back, you may notice that you picked up on people's feelings, thoughts, and even physical pains and discomforts. This likely means you are a strong intuitive feeler, also known as clairsentience.
When interacting with people as an intuitive feeler, you must be aware of two things:
1. Read energy, instead of experiencing or taking on energy.
2. Maintain a grounded energy or aura.
These two things will significantly support a sensitive feeler in their daily interactions to be unaffected by other people's energy and feel more at peace.
As a child, when my parents would walk through the front door after a long day at work, I would feel into or sense their energy to determine their emotional and mental state. This helped me discern how approachable they were with my questions and needs, as well as their level of acceptance or unacceptance of me.
When we're children, we learned to navigate the imbalances of our parents and other people, and that process for navigating is brought into our adult life. It was helpful when we were children. It can be helpful in our adult lives as well, but with an important change.
For strong feelers who are sensitive, it is very important to train yourself to read people's energy instead of experiencing their energy and taking their energy into yourself. This is analogous to reading the pages of a book versus tearing them out and eating them. You want to be able to read the pages of a person and then be able to put the book down and not have it affect you. This often requires working with a coach or practitioner to transform subconscious patterns in your mind.
Having your energies completely grounded means your energies and consciousness are within your own space and body. This energetic phenomenon has been called being present. Being grounded, or present, is essential to being able to read energies instead of taking them on. The teaching of being completely grounded in your body is vast, but it begins with self-acceptance and self-love, and then acceptance of the world around you.
New Three® University trainings that will support you to ground your intuitive feeling quality with empowerment, self-love and acceptance, Psychic Retrieval® and Five Accomplishments® Coaching
When a prophetic vision comes to you, a vision of the future, you may feel a sense of urgency for the vision to come true. This is because when we receive a prophetic vision it's often a powerful experience for us.
Unfortunately, many people misunderstand the timing of their vision and become disappointed or doubt themselves. Receiving a future vision today, does not mean it will happen today, next year, or even ten years from now.
It is very helpful to discern the accurate timing of your vision and your participation with it. You may have a specific role with the vision that needs to be understood. Having context for your vision in relation to your whole life is just as important as the vision itself.
I wrote my first book, Age of the Soul, using channeled writing in 2006. While channeling the book, I received a prophetic vision about a physical university to be co-created with myself, other like-minded individuals, and God-The Source. However, now eleven years later, the actual timing for the physical university is not today, but years down the road.
There have been many steps up to today and steps that will be taken before the physical institution is built and available to the world. Our present step has been bringing the initial university certification courses to cities around the world, without a "physical" established location.
The excitement and impact of the incredible vision I received eleven years ago made me want to manifest it immediately. But in most cases, a practical timeline must also be clarified intuitively, so that we can accurately and effectively manifest what we are shown in vision.
Determining the “when” is a result of using all four intuitive senses, combined with your mind, so you can build a complete picture of when and how the vision is meant to be used or happen.
This means that relying only on vision, your intuitive seeing, does not complete the picture for you. You also need your intuitive hearing, feeling and knowing to explain your intuitive vision. All four intuitive qualities work together.
To increase the accuracy of your prophetic visions manifesting, be sure to maintain an intuitive connection ongoing with how things may change and the practical steps that you must take over time. Things do change because of such factors that include: free will, highest benefit of all, and simply a change of circumstances with your own life.
Remember to strengthen all four of your intuitive senses. As a result, you'll receive everything that your prophetic visions want you to know!
New Three® University Training to Develop All Four Intuitive Abilities and Receive Prophecy: Psychic Retrieval®
Feeling powerless and trapped, doing things you don’t want to do, is one of the worst feelings.
Have you been invited to go out with friends and told them, “I can’t go because I need to do something?”
It's common to provide them with a reason that you “have to do”, “should do” or “need to do” some other obligation. This view is particularly disempowering and will leave you feeling some sense of contracted energy or inner conflict.
The true objective reality is we don’t do something out of 'need', we do it out of 'want'. This is true with everything we do. We do it because we want to do it. On some level, we are choosing to participate in the experience, even though we believe we have no choice.
Let's illustrate it with a common example: You are low on food, so you decide it is important to purchase groceries at the market. When someone asks you to go out with them, you consciously or subconsciously make the decision that you want to pick up groceries more than you want to go out with them.
You don't tell them that. Instead, you say you can't do it and need to do something else. After all, your friends might feel offended if you told them you'd rather go to the grocery store than hang out with them. We place ourselves in a disempowered state that gives the appearance we have no choice.
'Want' is the key word here. You could go days more without groceries, however, you might not have the meals you want or your child might not have a school lunch. So, you decide on some level you 'want' to pick up groceries that night instead of hanging out with someone.
The express ticket to the most empowering experience is to eliminate the dispassion of going to the market by changing the words you use when you speak about it or think about it.
On most topics, there is inner conflict happening with two or more parts of us. This causes stress, worry, pain and suffering. It detracts from peace and feeling empowered.
In Five Accomplishments® Coaching, we guide you into building your Treasure Map to Your Soul, of all the conflicting parts within you that are causing even the least bit of dispassion or discomfort. Go on a treasure hunt to find the conflicting parts of you that resist owning the fact that you are choosing your reality.
Your simple but Big Step is anytime you find yourself saying that you “have to do”, “should do” or “need to do” something, change the words to “I want to do” it.
See how you feel. See how dispassion begins to dissolve and the difference it makes in your happiness.
New Three® University Training to experience Soul-Based™ Living: Five Accomplishments® Coaching
When our mind and heart do not believe that we are doing as well as we could be, or that life is not going as well as it could go, we move out of alignment with our soul’s vibration and purpose.
A detrimental ripple effect is created from the moment we acknowledge:
"Something feels wrong."
No matter how developed a person is or how much they have transformed within themselves, we’ve all felt this.
Unfortunately, when we linger in these thoughts, it will tug and pull us away from the natural rhythm and vibration of our loving soul. As this happens, we move out of alignment with our highest path and greatest wellbeing. It also greatly colors how we see life.
The old paradigm is about changing something physically, outside of us.
The new paradigm is about changing our perspective of the situation, person or thing.
Often clients will initially come to me asking how they can change a loved one, a partner or child’s behavior. It’s common for me to hear, “How do I get them to stop doing this?” or “How do I get them to do this?” My reply every time is, “Change your perspective of the situation and allow the situation to align with your new perspective.”
We can change our own perspective and have the new perspective change the physical world around us in the most immediate and impactful way.
Please take a moment to meditate on this approach, because while it sounds simple and probably something you believe you’ve done or heard before, it takes tremendous patience. It is super simple to understand in theory, but can be very challenging to put into practice consistently. Patience is key. It is through patience with yourself, as you change a perspective on a situation and with those involved, that you will see energy move and reality become different.
Situations where you feel a tug or pull with a little voice saying something is ‘off’ or ‘wrong’ or ‘not okay’, do this:
1. Take a deep grounding breath into the present moment and feel your body.
2. Ask yourself the question and take your time to imagine, “If I was to envision and feel that this experience is ‘right’ and that I’m ‘okay’, what would it look like and feel like?” You may choose to journal about what you imagine.
At first, being patient with yourself to view situations this way may feel like effort, but you will eventually create a new perspective of viewing life from this soul-based perspective.
This is a perspective shift!
• By moving from ‘wrong’ to ‘right’ and from ‘not okay’ to ‘okay’, you will align with much more peace and passion for your life that exists now—in this moment.
• From there, you will know exactly what action to take next, if any.
You may not believe the new perspective at first. It may be difficult to get in touch with. Be patient. It is okay if it feels artificial at first. You are getting parts of you into alignment with your soul’s loving, peaceful nature.
This is one of many understandings to align with your soul and live a soul-based life.
As we take one step closer to soul alignment, we become more aligned with our soul’s purpose on this planet.
New Three® University Training to experience Soul-Based™ Living: Five Accomplishments® Coaching
Each of us loses an immediate family member. The grieving process is natural and important, but at the same time we have an incredible opportunity to have a new and more expansive relationship with them as spirit, their nonphysical soul. Not only can we feel our deceased loved ones, but see them and even have a two-way conversation with them. We are never alone. Spirit is always with us.
Unexpectedly on June 12, 2017 my twenty-eight-year-old sister Jenna died. Her death and the circumstances around it were shocking and traumatic for our family, along with all the people that Jenna touched during her physical life.
Losing a person at such a young age is challenging because we know they had more of their life to live. She was planning her wedding and honeymoon the week she passed. I wish I had more time with her.
The third day after her passing, I was lying in bed anticipating flying from California to Maryland to be a part of the services. My own thoughts changed to advice about feeling patient and calm as I make my way through the airport, and to take my time being present. As this was happening, my intuitive knowing recognized it was Jenna speaking in my mind.
A vision of Jenna came to me the next day. She had the biggest, brightest smile and I could hear her voice in my mind saying, "I am great." She was showing me the absolute joy and peace she had as spirit. I received a glimpse of what it felt like and her big smile became contagious. I began smiling too.
Father's Day was her viewing and service. Before the public arrived, I was able to have a private viewing of her. I asked intuitively if Jenna's soul was with me and my intuition showed that she was with her mother, who needed her more at the time.
A little while later I kneeled by the casket to speak with her spirit. I felt her come into the space with me. She reassured me she had total peace and loves us. Then, she said her mom was arriving to the service, and a minute later she walked in.
Thereafter, Jenna would pop in my mind and provide me with guidance. She told me she would help me through challenges I had been experiencing. I feel grateful and cherish this new relationship we have. (Pictured left to right: Melissa Lilly and Jenna Lilly)
Everyone can continue their relationship with their deceased loved ones. Some loved ones who pass will become spiritual guides and some will simply be there to call on from time to time.
Consider two things:
1. Be open and allow yourself to experience your deceased loved ones as the loving spirit they are now, and...
2. Believe they want to continue being a part of your life and that they do want to communicate with you.
You may experience thoughts in your mind that seem like it's your loved one advising you, a vision of them, or a voice in your mind that you hear. It could be a simple knowing that they are with you, or a subtle feeling they are near.
Have you sensed something after your loved one passed?
Please believe it when you sense it. Share about this blessing with others so they may be inspired to continue a relationship with their deceased loved ones.
Our Voice Channeling® training teaches people how to directly communicate with their deceased loved ones and spiritual guides. Our Psychic Retrieval® training teaches people how to fully activate intuitive senses to perceive the nonphysical. Students have had phenomenal experiences with their deceased parents and loved ones actually embracing them, watching over and guiding them. Tremendous healing happens.
New Three® University Trainings to experience Oneness with Spirit: Voice Channeling® and to Become an Accurate Psychic: Psychic Retrieval®
Trusting a message that comes from seemingly nowhere, from an unseen, intangible source, may feel risky to you and you are not alone in your feelings.
When we witness something physical, we typically believe it more. You look into the eyes of your loved one, feel their warm embrace and hear them say, "I love you." You don't think for a moment it's not real or doubt the reality that it happened. But we doubt spirit.
We've been conditioned to trust our physical senses and doubt our nonphysical senses. It started at a very early age.
What if you gave as much validation to your nonphysical senses as you did to your physical ones? Then, when you receive an insight of how your spirit guide may appear, feel the sense of their presence and hear a thought come into your mind of something helpful, you will know that what happened is as real as your friend giving you a hug.
We are out of practice with this approach. We are desensitized to it. Trusting something nonphysical that you hear or see isn't just abnormal, it is seen as a mental illness by some or immature and weird by others. We have a valid reason to feel unsafe with our nonphysical senses, due to the bombardment of stimuli telling us it's only going to bring us rejection, pain and letdown.
Consider courageously practicing an approach to life where you perceive 50% with your nonphysical senses and 50% with your physical senses. For example, if you are having a conversation with someone, let their physical voice carry half the meaning and their unspoken thoughts and emotions carry the other half.
It is truly rewarding to choose to observe interactions with people from this 50/50 standpoint. I often observe communication 80% nonphysical and see the words spoken as a carrier for the true meaning, and this approach has been extremely helpful with coaching my clients and students. It has also cultivated a confidence in my ability to speak with spirit.
The way I sensitize myself to spirit each day is by giving as much validation, or more, to my nonphysical senses as I do my physical ones. While this may feel new at first for you to try, it will be extremely fulfilling in your pursuit of being a clear, confident medium and psychic.
Sensitize yourself to the beauty of existence experienced through your nonphysical ears, eyes, mind and feeling, or in other words your four intuitive qualities.
From this practice, you will begin to trust spirit more everyday and benefit from their messages to you.
New Three® University Training to Become an Accurate Psychic: Psychic Retrieval®
You think you got a message from spirit.
You are somewhere in the range of,
• "Maybe it happened, but maybe it didn't," to. . .
• "I am pretty confident that it was spirit, but not 100%."
You have doubts and all sorts of reasons why it was probably not spirit. You have decided it must be your mind or imagination and therefore untrue.
This is where most people STOP.
Sinking into their doubts, maybe even thinking self-deprecating thoughts about themselves, they blow off the message they received.
Have you done this before?
Everyone I've met, including myself, has felt this way at some point in their development of spiritual communication.
The nagging question of "Was it really spirit?" can close us down, and we want to redirect our energy in a way that opens us up.
Instead of focusing on proving whether the messages are from spirit, ask yourself the most important question:
"Does the message resonate with me, and does it help?"
Since your spiritual guidance is here to support you, the support you receive is what matters.
In asking yourself this new question, for a moment, you can take spirit out of the equation.
Imagine you came across the message in a post online or a friend shared it with you.
Does the message resonate with you, and does it help?
• Resonance means that it "rings true", "makes sense" and looks, feels or sounds "aligned" with you.
• Helpful means that it appears beneficial.
Chances are that the message is helpful and you can see the benefit of believing it and following the advice.
If the message helps, then it helps. And that's the point.
Spirit is giving you messages to help you and even if you're unsure if it came from spirit, please don't waste the great advice! 🙂
Come back to the question of, "Does this message resonate and does it help?" And if the answer is "YES," then take action.
Your confidence in receiving from spirit will grow over time. In hindsight you'll see the benefits of acting on the messages you receive.
New Three® University Training to Become an Accurate Medium: Voice Channeling®