What does “Highest Benefit” really mean...and why does it matter to you?

The Highest Benefit matters to you because:

• You are being directed to it every day,

• Things often work out different than you thought because of it, and

• Prayers go unanswered because of it.

Do you know the song Unanswered Prayers? It’s a song that says “some of God’s greatest gifts are unanswered prayers” and it talks about being young and praying that you would end up with a certain person. It goes on to say that now, later in life, being married and grateful that your original prayer wasn’t answered because you know who you ended up with is the best person for you.

We sometimes can’t see what the best experience is for us, but Spirit does see it clearly.

When I was a child my Dad played this song in the car, as his music taste was usually country or Elvis Presley. The lyrics had struck me then and I’ve come back to them throughout my life. The lyrics helped me to know there is a greater orchestration than I could possibly see. To me, the lyrics meant sometimes we don’t see our highest benefit in the moment but we understand it looking back.

The SOUL is a mystery to many people. They confuse their soul with their own emotions, wants and desires and yet the soul perceives our life very differently than our human mind perceives it.

Once you know your soul by aligning with your soul’s perspective, life truly becomes amazing and awe-inspiring.

Your soul’s perspective will show you:

• How to love yourself and others, no matter what.
• What your purpose is in every moment.
• Your physical and spiritual gifts.

How is your soul different than your personality?

Songwriting became a passion of mine at eleven years old. I turned clever phrases into lyrics and melodies. But it wasn’t until I was living in Los Angeles at twenty-five that I aligned my conscious and subconscious energies to actually manifest a music producer to record me as a singer songwriter. As fantastic of a life purpose dream being a recording artist was for me, it wasn’t the path my soul had planned for me.

My spirit guides worked hard to get me on my truer path that my soul intended for me. Just two years later at twenty-seven I met my husband Jason, and it was at that point I began my soul’s true life purpose calling.

Fortunately my conscious and subconscious had already begun aligning with this path the previous year through my introduction to spiritual explorations like communicating with spirit, psychic perceptions and receiving intuitive readings. So when I met Jason and was presented with the opportunity to be personal partners, as well as founding New Three^® University with him, everything in me knew it was 100% what my soul wanted. I had been guided to my soul’s true calling and I was excited!

As for my personality, emotionally and mentally, it has been the most incredible journey over the past ten years. Just through the everyday miracle of Voice Channeling^® my spirit guides, I’ve experienced and received:
• Universal wisdom of the physical and spiritual world,
• Prophecy with my purpose and role in the world,
• Proof of life after death and of our soul’s eternal existence!

Unconditional Receiving. We have been taught that receiving is not something you allow openly. You've got to give, give, give and only then you can receive. What would it look like for you to truly unconditionally receive?

The ultimate expression of manifesting is receiving everything from the Universe, without needing to give anything back in return.

You may say, “That feels uncomfortable.” I want to invite you to consider what your life would be like if you gave yourself permission to receive all the energy that the Universe has to share with you. Without:

• judging it,
• micro managing it,
• doubting it,
• going into the ‘should I’, ‘but’
• and then trying to equate what you need to give back to reciprocate.

What if you just simply allowed and received everything from the Universe…people, places, situations in your life, Spirit, God…just be this receiver. *What if your purpose was simply, ‘receiving’?

Gifts are everywhere. Do you see the gifts in front of you now?

The energy of this new year is calling us to receive the multitude of gifts for our life purpose.

Each gift expands us, opens us, allows us to be present as our loving soul manifests its reason for being on the planet at this time.

Then our question is more than ever, "How can I serve my soul's purpose by capturing and opening every gift in every moment?" This approach is based on the understanding that each moment is an opportunity to expand into and know our soul's destiny more deeply.

Each emotion, belief system, action and even physical manifestation are love notes from our soul helping us to make the best decisions and course changes to feel passionate and fulfilled inside as a result of more fully living our purpose.

We must embrace radical self-awareness to the point that we are aware of every dimension of ourselves in each life experience. By delving into radical self-awareness we can see our gifts more clearly, gifts that bring opportunity, abundance, healing and fulfillment. These gifts are within our emotions, our thoughts, our actions and how the universe responds to us, how people interact with us.

After twenty minutes of Spirit Voice Channeling^® through me about feeling the unconditional love of Source, the energy of perseverance and overcoming anything, and how to allow God to work through you (all available in the previous blogs), I asked Spirit if there is anything else they wanted me to share with you.

A stronger energy came in. It was the energy of God-Source, and this is what was said:

“To know themselves. To know themselves is to know their spirit. Their spirit being their soul's nature and the guides that are with them. Because one cannot truly know themselves by their humanity alone. The total picture of your beingness goes beyond your life stories, human desires, and what you like and dislike.

Your soul self goes far beyond your personality alone. A wisdom beyond the physical happens as one develops themselves into alignment with their soul. A new unified, spiritual version of your personality emerges, where your perspective embodies a grounded, present, love-based acceptance for every moment of life and every aspect of Creation. Spiritual Clarity and Vision come to you faster and easier...

This is the goal for humanity, to know and live as your beautiful soul.

Your soul created a life destiny consisting of major experiences and lessons it wanted to receive. You could also call it your purpose, because aligning with your soul’s destiny is certainly purposeful. But what does this mean and how do you stay on track?

When you are discovering the flow of your soul’s purpose, it helps to know what the flow feels like and looks like for you. Having an indicator or compass for when you are in FLOW will help you to stay on track.

• For some people, actually a lot of spiritual people, flow means comfortable, easy, non-challenging feelings and living by inspiration in the moment.
• For others, flow means productivity, efficiency, achievement of goals and a feeling of breaking through walls and resistance.

Which is it then, Comfort and Ease or Productivity and Achievement?

Most of us lean towards one of these directions. A balance of both approaches is the most beneficial flow and a great goal to work towards.

A Psychic Reading is simply reading information about a part of the Universe with our Nonphysical intuitive senses.

Sometimes we like to go to a professional to have them read an aspect of our life or the Universe for us, so that we can have insight to make the best decisions.

Other times we are the professional psychic doing the reading for someone and want to produce the most purposeful, effective experience for that client that comes to us.

The fact of the matter is, we are all constantly reading existence with our psychic perception because it’s a natural soul ability within us. But that doesn’t mean that many people are even aware of what they’re doing.

To get the most value from a reading for another human being, we want to look at a few things that indicate deeper value and accuracy, with information that is actionable.

If you could ask your Creator anything, what would you ask?

If you could receive everything to illuminate your Divine Purpose, how would you feel?

The best way to know the questions to ask Spirit is to use your intuitive fountain of wisdom that is all knowing. Your infinite psychic power, can perceive and tap into where to put your energy.

Thought processes and emotional complexities sometimes elude our clearest intuitive knowing, but don’t let that stop you.

1. Get as quiet as you can within yourself,
2. Receive what you receive as questions to bring to your Creator,
3. Ask and be open to Spirit, and the special ways Spirit is supporting you with your Divine value and purpose.

One might ask, ‘What comes first, my intuitive capability or Spirit communicating with me?’ Both are always happening. You can harness and develop your psychic ability to tap into the energy lines that you are meant to expand an understanding on.

Imagine your subconscious mind as a vast storehouse of every experience you’ve had during this lifetime. Layer upon layer, our subconscious mind is coded with every perception we have, starting from when we are in our mother’s womb. From the first moments of physical consciousness, our viewpoint of life is being built. Once we come out into the world, there is no filter on our mind. Our mind receives and imprints all that we witness. This greatly shapes our future experiences that we will have.

As we grow into our teenage years and beyond, our subconscious mind is greatly formed. But we have the ability to discern and filter what we accept as our version of reality. This formation process of our subconscious mind directly determines how joy and love are inspired from our interactions with the world, and how these wonderful feelings are also restricted and muffled.

For some joy is fleeting, felt only for moments at a time. For others joy is more consistent and expansive, filling each day and most interactions with people.

One thing that we all have in common is a deep desire or longing for more joy and love. To feel love and joy deeper and more sustainable is at the heart of every person’s vision for life.

When it comes to manifesting your destiny, we need to address vital points that nobody’s talking about.

This is an Advanced Teaching that I’ve previously only introduced to long-term clients because there is so much to learn to properly harness the power of this advanced manifesting focus. But because so many people are struggling to create the life they desire, I want to at least open your mind to what’s possible today, and what may be interfering with what you want to manifest.
(more on Spiritual Life Coaching with Jason Nelson)

First, I need to introduce you to an important spiritual teaching on the HUGE difference between the Nonphysical and Physical World.

The Nonphysical Spirit World can only serve our highest benefit – without exception! Meaning that spiritual guidance is working for the highest benefit of every person.

Whereas the Physical Universe, where we as spirit incarnate into as humans on Earth, has the potential for that which is not our highest benefit.

These two questions are highly thought about by everyone, worded in different ways.

What is my purpose? How do I expand my purpose beyond my blocks?

We want to know our purpose and we want to know how to get there as quickly and effortlessly as possible. This is true for everyone because it’s an innate, built-in yearning so that we can reveal our path, our purpose, and overcome blocks with it. We’re meant to.

Because everyone has a purpose, there is this yearning to know it and fulfill it. Living physically provides challenging experiences that benefit our soul’s evolution, and they can feel like big blocks, but there is always a way around them.

Even when we’re clear on exactly what we’re supposed to do, like Melissa and I are with New Three^® University, challenges come up and we have to navigate those challenges and road blocks. Bumps on your path are natural. Everyone experiences them. But not everyone knows how to effectively overcome them.

When our mind and heart do not believe that we are doing as well as we could be, or that life is not going as well as it could go, we move out of alignment with our soul’s vibration and purpose.

A detrimental ripple effect is created from the moment we acknowledge:

"Something feels wrong."

No matter how developed a person is or how much they have transformed within themselves, we’ve all felt this.

Unfortunately, when we linger in these thoughts, it will tug and pull us away from the natural rhythm and vibration of our loving soul. As this happens, we move out of alignment with our highest path and greatest wellbeing. It also greatly colors how we see life.

Many people don't feel a relationship with spirit. Instead, they feel disconnected. But deep down, everyone wants to feel oneness with spirit.

Questioning if spirit is with you, produces doubtful feelings. Don't question it, or wait for 'proof'. Create your own 'proof'.

Spirit is always with you, each moment of your existence, in a real way.

Be ambitious. Tap into your relationship with spirit. Create your spiritual oneness.

Here's how you can get started.

Influences are constantly affecting our ability to manifest. Teachers are tapping into higher levels of manifesting: conscious thoughts; then, subconscious thoughts; finally, manifesting beyond the Law of Attraction altogether.

It's likely many people reading this are thinking, how can something be more effective than even the "Law of Attraction"...it's a universal law, isn't it?

The interesting, missed understanding about universal laws, is they mostly govern our physical experience, but there are exceptions, for instance, where the Law of Attraction does not govern our life direction, in the context of focusing our thoughts to manifest something.

Manifesting beyond the Law of Attraction does involve our conscious and subconscious mind, and something else...aligning with our soul's life purpose.

'Soul Manifesting' is an approach to manifesting that is far more effective, in so many ways, than only using 'Mental Manifesting'. They complement each other, and they are quite different at the same time.

Manifesting a purposeful life is more important than manifesting a long life.

Refocusing our underlying motivation is how we can better create our soul's destiny!

Consider pivoting from, "May you have a long and happy life," to "May you live a purposeful and soul-based life."

Our soul's viewpoint is not to extend future moments, but to be present for this moment, here, now.

Our soul sees the length of a life not as better or worse, but instead asks the questions at the completion of its life, "What opportunities did I seize? Did I choose to love and accept, when it was most difficult? Did I contribute what I intended to share with the Earth?"

Genuine spiritual relationships are not as rare as some might think. Soul mates, twin flames, life partners, marriage. . . We are going to clarify the difference and similarities.

It is every person's destiny to be in relationship with another person. Relationships are our greatest opportunity to receive the spiritual experiences our soul wanted to have when it planned and envisioned this most beneficial lifetime.

Humans are not naturally meant to be alone or isolated; it goes against how the Source designed the incarnation experience on Earth of a soul existing in the human body. Most people feel drawn to be with someone, as a partner in life, for the short term or long term.

The length a relationship is purposeful, is solely based on how the relationship serves experiences that both souls wanted to receive. This is called a mutual benefit on a spiritual level. We don't always see or know what that benefit is when we're in the middle of it, but it helps us to consider indirect benefits or ones that aren't obvious.

High emotions can greatly reduce happiness and intimacy, leading to pain and suffering.

Charged-up relationships feel volatile. How do we turn a triggering situation with someone into an empowering opportunity to feel abundant peace and happiness?

The short answer is to love yourself, which allows you to love others, but this is how you get there:

My relationships with close family and my life partner is highly emotional at times. We know this is part of being human in today's world. We can experience heightened emotions with loved ones.

People show a spectrum of love, and that is what we really want to remember when understanding the path to feeling more love. Our love is expressed clearer sometimes than others.

Holidays, big transitions, and differences of opinion, often shine light on the parts of us that express unclear love.

Long ago when souls first incarnated into the human on Earth, there needed to be beings that would oversee their entire life from birth until death. These beings are called Primary Guides, because they are the first and last being to have a direct influence over your lifetime.

Primary guides have been called by many names: Angels, Guardian Angels, Gatekeepers, God. You may call this influence on your life any name you are comfortable with.

You only have one primary guide and their main responsibility is to execute your soul's plan that it created before you incarnated. To achieve your soul's goals requires bringing in secondary guides on a daily basis.

The difference between a primary guide and a secondary guide isn't based on their evolution, experiences or even expertise. Simply, the primary guide has chosen to be with one human for their entire life, and a secondary guide has chosen to influence them for a duration of time that is directly dependent upon the benefit to and fulfillment of the human's needs.

Sometimes when we choose to believe that life should be a happy, loving, comfortable experience, it can limit us from receiving everything this Universe has for us and what is most purposeful for our soul.

Deep down not a single person would consciously prefer to be uncomfortable. The issue is not about whether you would prefer to be comfortable or uncomfortable, because both will happen. The accomplishment here is being able to see an equal value in both.

By valuing both equally, we can eventually evolve into preferring them equally, without judgement, based on what is most purposeful for our soul.

Then, our inner dialogue changes from, “What makes me comfortable?” to “What is serving and supporting my soul's purpose?”

Comfort and discomfort do not define you as a good person or bad person, or an ego-based or soul-based person.

Anchoring your soul’s voice physically actually helps it manifest more clearly.

Channeling a book from your soul, or even directly from your higher power, is of the most fulfilling experiences and infinitely important, because it solidifies a real, true compass of energetic direction and wisdom that is beyond what our individual self may have knowledge of…and it’s not just for a select few, it’s an ability you have too.

I use channeled writing to bring through my books, currently published and available including Age of the Soul and Empower Our Children. The experience is incredible, invigorating and tremendously healing.

When I was called to channel my first book, it did not make sense to me. I got D’s in English class, because it was my least favorite subject. I had no idea what I would write.

I said, “Really God, me?” Source told me, “Just write.” So I did, initially channeling my first book in two weeks.

Mistrusting is our largest block in the way of true unconditional love.

We call stepping into unconditional love, the initiation of the soul, because when we dissolve the mistrust, your spiritual light floods into your body, mind and feelings, revealing in every instance the path of greatest benefit and love.

It can happen in one instant with just one choice. It's not always easy to choose unconditional love and this is why:

Unconditional love is not a space of the mind, so it can be confusing, leading to mistrust of it. Confusing by those observing you from the outside and confusing for the one that has crossed the threshold into unconditional love. The mind does not feel in control, because the mind cannot make sense of it. It is not a place of mental rationale, mostly.

It’s a soul sense and understanding, if you will, that’s led by an inner knowing from a connection to universal truth.

Souls are choosing to reincarnate hundreds or thousands of times because of one main human imbalance.

We will identify and solve this imbalance, so you may feel better now and save your soul possibly hundreds of lifetimes. You can actually eliminate the need to reincarnate.

20 years of my life, from age five to twenty-five, was a very ungrounded time for me. I began school and interacting with the world in a larger way, which led me to an imbalance in my energy, causing an ungrounded energetic state of being.

I'm not sure exactly how much of those 20 years will not be included in the life experiences my soul takes back with it, but because I was ungrounded, or not present, there is a portion of those experiences not counted by my soul.

At age twenty-five, I learned about this necessity of being grounded, completely and fully, and I began teaching it to others, so they could have all of their experiences count and be used by their soul.

You are clairvoyant. You’re also clairaudient, clairsentient and claircognizant. What I’m saying here is you have all four intuitive or psychic senses: intuitive seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing.

People believe they’re born with only one or two psychic senses, and this is very limiting. It limits confidence, our perception of the unseen world and therefore dampens everyday life experiences. Re-imagine what it would feel like to thrive with all four psychic senses, because all four are already on within you. It’s just a matter of recognizing it. Here’s how.

You do have an intuitive order, which means you tend to have one or two senses that are stronger than the others, but you do still have all four. First you need to identify this order. You may be aware of one of your strongest or weakest intuitive senses, but you need the full picture, so you can start exercising the ones that are weaker. We want all of our clairs to be equal in strength. Intuitive Charting^™ can help you see this and understand your order (you can have an Intuitive Charting Session with us when you select at least “2” Psychic Retrieval^® Sessions).

Spirit, how do you recommend people build self-confidence, and not be distracted or concerned by what others think?

Through Melissa Voice Channeling^®, spirit shared:

Building one's confidence is a unique idea because it requires you to be steadfast in your beingness.

Your beingness is a combined experience of your soul connection, clarity of one's truth or position on the matter, and ultimately a greater wisdom of the situation and moment you are in.

The fact that you exist is the only proof you need to value and accept yourself. You are alive and so it is your birthright to feel confident, from your first moment in this world to your last.

Sensitives are overwhelmed and affected by the energy of people, places and things.

A common question my clients ask is, “How can I not be affected by this person or situation?” You’ve probably thought this before.

Sometimes family members, your partner, coworkers, or even children, can have an energy that is overwhelming. It feels like the opposite of peace and calm.

These energies can create uncomfortable feelings in your body of hot or cold, sleepy or stimulating, mental or emotional, or even body pains and energetic ickiness. If you think about it, you can probably imagine how you’ve been uncomfortable with the energy of others daily.

There are reasons why you are affected by these external energies. As much as we’d like to believe “we’ve made it” and that “us enlightened people shouldn’t be affected by others,” we are affected.

One thing we all have in common is a desire for instant changes or instant gratification. By moving into a soul-based mindset, you will experience instant shifts each moment, truly.

My first passion was creating and performing music. Playing guitar in bands from age fifteen to twenty five provided me the greatest pleasure, and part of that satisfaction was how my music touched others. But I wanted more. I wanted a record deal with a real record company. Then, I wanted to write songs for major artists and produce them in the recording studio. I didn’t want to wait.

My epiphany with God on my twenty-fifth birthday showed me a new passion and purpose. Spirit has shown me a great, expansive vision of New Three^® University, and what is to come thereafter.

Seeing the future and such an enormous potential, leaves a small part of me wanting it now, whereas the bigger part of me is enjoying each step of creating this global movement under spirit, and the magic each day brings.

More importantly, I’ve learned to see the instant shifts in each moment.

Famous Psychic Mediums have one thing in common.

They have developed themselves.

Seasoned psychic mediums typically have felt the calling and had an initial opening from an early age. It’s true our soul abilities can be quite clear when we’re young because of the innocence we have as a child. But that is not enough to be a professional at it. Famous mediums have devoted themselves to developing their ability, and authentic mediums continue to develop for their entire life.

If you go to a psychic medium to receive answers and ask them about how they came to do their work professionally, you’ll want to hear a similar story. But if they try to convince you that they are of the ‘select few’ who were ‘born gifted’ and are ‘there’, that is your sign to run the other way! Look for psychic mediums who value and pursue their own continued growth and development. They will be great role models for you.

Do you have any dreams you want to understand more deeply?

When we sleep, we dream. Dreaming is a simple process that happens automatically, and it is our natural way of working through life challenges.

Dreams are your personality’s way of processing and evolving during sleep. Your mind and emotions are integrating and releasing life perspectives.

To understand your dreams, first consider that there is no universal symbolism in your dreams.

The big misconception that every visual symbol means the same thing for everyone is inaccurate. There is a huge body of information in books and online articles that will tell you what running water means or what a ladder means. All of our experiences and the way our minds process information is unique to each of us, therefore, there can be no ‘cookie cutter’ definition that applies to everyone.