Manifesting a purposeful life is more important than manifesting a long life.

Refocusing our underlying motivation is how we can better create our soul's destiny!

Consider pivoting from, "May you have a long and happy life," to "May you live a purposeful and soul-based life."

Our soul's viewpoint is not to extend future moments, but to be present for this moment, here, now.

Our soul sees the length of a life not as better or worse, but instead asks the questions at the completion of its life, "What opportunities did I seize? Did I choose to love and accept, when it was most difficult? Did I contribute what I intended to share with the Earth?"

Genuine spiritual relationships are not as rare as some might think. Soul mates, twin flames, life partners, marriage. . . We are going to clarify the difference and similarities.

It is every person's destiny to be in relationship with another person. Relationships are our greatest opportunity to receive the spiritual experiences our soul wanted to have when it planned and envisioned this most beneficial lifetime.

Humans are not naturally meant to be alone or isolated; it goes against how the Source designed the incarnation experience on Earth of a soul existing in the human body. Most people feel drawn to be with someone, as a partner in life, for the short term or long term.

The length a relationship is purposeful, is solely based on how the relationship serves experiences that both souls wanted to receive. This is called a mutual benefit on a spiritual level. We don't always see or know what that benefit is when we're in the middle of it, but it helps us to consider indirect benefits or ones that aren't obvious.

High emotions can greatly reduce happiness and intimacy, leading to pain and suffering.

Charged-up relationships feel volatile. How do we turn a triggering situation with someone into an empowering opportunity to feel abundant peace and happiness?

The short answer is to love yourself, which allows you to love others, but this is how you get there:

My relationships with close family and my life partner is highly emotional at times. We know this is part of being human in today's world. We can experience heightened emotions with loved ones.

People show a spectrum of love, and that is what we really want to remember when understanding the path to feeling more love. Our love is expressed clearer sometimes than others.

Holidays, big transitions, and differences of opinion, often shine light on the parts of us that express unclear love.

Long ago when souls first incarnated into the human on Earth, there needed to be beings that would oversee their entire life from birth until death. These beings are called Primary Guides, because they are the first and last being to have a direct influence over your lifetime.

Primary guides have been called by many names: Angels, Guardian Angels, Gatekeepers, God. You may call this influence on your life any name you are comfortable with.

You only have one primary guide and their main responsibility is to execute your soul's plan that it created before you incarnated. To achieve your soul's goals requires bringing in secondary guides on a daily basis.

The difference between a primary guide and a secondary guide isn't based on their evolution, experiences or even expertise. Simply, the primary guide has chosen to be with one human for their entire life, and a secondary guide has chosen to influence them for a duration of time that is directly dependent upon the benefit to and fulfillment of the human's needs.

Sometimes when we choose to believe that life should be a happy, loving, comfortable experience, it can limit us from receiving everything this Universe has for us and what is most purposeful for our soul.

Deep down not a single person would consciously prefer to be uncomfortable. The issue is not about whether you would prefer to be comfortable or uncomfortable, because both will happen. The accomplishment here is being able to see an equal value in both.

By valuing both equally, we can eventually evolve into preferring them equally, without judgement, based on what is most purposeful for our soul.

Then, our inner dialogue changes from, “What makes me comfortable?” to “What is serving and supporting my soul's purpose?”

Comfort and discomfort do not define you as a good person or bad person, or an ego-based or soul-based person.

Anchoring your soul’s voice physically actually helps it manifest more clearly.

Channeling a book from your soul, or even directly from your higher power, is of the most fulfilling experiences and infinitely important, because it solidifies a real, true compass of energetic direction and wisdom that is beyond what our individual self may have knowledge of…and it’s not just for a select few, it’s an ability you have too.

I use channeled writing to bring through my books, currently published and available including Age of the Soul and Empower Our Children. The experience is incredible, invigorating and tremendously healing.

When I was called to channel my first book, it did not make sense to me. I got D’s in English class, because it was my least favorite subject. I had no idea what I would write.

I said, “Really God, me?” Source told me, “Just write.” So I did, initially channeling my first book in two weeks.

Mistrusting is our largest block in the way of true unconditional love.

We call stepping into unconditional love, the initiation of the soul, because when we dissolve the mistrust, your spiritual light floods into your body, mind and feelings, revealing in every instance the path of greatest benefit and love.

It can happen in one instant with just one choice. It's not always easy to choose unconditional love and this is why:

Unconditional love is not a space of the mind, so it can be confusing, leading to mistrust of it. Confusing by those observing you from the outside and confusing for the one that has crossed the threshold into unconditional love. The mind does not feel in control, because the mind cannot make sense of it. It is not a place of mental rationale, mostly.

It’s a soul sense and understanding, if you will, that’s led by an inner knowing from a connection to universal truth.

Souls are choosing to reincarnate hundreds or thousands of times because of one main human imbalance.

We will identify and solve this imbalance, so you may feel better now and save your soul possibly hundreds of lifetimes. You can actually eliminate the need to reincarnate.

20 years of my life, from age five to twenty-five, was a very ungrounded time for me. I began school and interacting with the world in a larger way, which led me to an imbalance in my energy, causing an ungrounded energetic state of being.

I'm not sure exactly how much of those 20 years will not be included in the life experiences my soul takes back with it, but because I was ungrounded, or not present, there is a portion of those experiences not counted by my soul.

At age twenty-five, I learned about this necessity of being grounded, completely and fully, and I began teaching it to others, so they could have all of their experiences count and be used by their soul.

You are clairvoyant. You’re also clairaudient, clairsentient and claircognizant. What I’m saying here is you have all four intuitive or psychic senses: intuitive seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing.

People believe they’re born with only one or two psychic senses, and this is very limiting. It limits confidence, our perception of the unseen world and therefore dampens everyday life experiences. Re-imagine what it would feel like to thrive with all four psychic senses, because all four are already on within you. It’s just a matter of recognizing it. Here’s how.

You do have an intuitive order, which means you tend to have one or two senses that are stronger than the others, but you do still have all four. First you need to identify this order. You may be aware of one of your strongest or weakest intuitive senses, but you need the full picture, so you can start exercising the ones that are weaker. We want all of our clairs to be equal in strength. Intuitive Charting^™ can help you see this and understand your order (you can have an Intuitive Charting Session with us when you select at least “2” Psychic Retrieval^® Sessions).

Spirit, how do you recommend people build self-confidence, and not be distracted or concerned by what others think?

Through Melissa Voice Channeling^®, spirit shared:

Building one's confidence is a unique idea because it requires you to be steadfast in your beingness.

Your beingness is a combined experience of your soul connection, clarity of one's truth or position on the matter, and ultimately a greater wisdom of the situation and moment you are in.

The fact that you exist is the only proof you need to value and accept yourself. You are alive and so it is your birthright to feel confident, from your first moment in this world to your last.

Sensitives are overwhelmed and affected by the energy of people, places and things.

A common question my clients ask is, “How can I not be affected by this person or situation?” You’ve probably thought this before.

Sometimes family members, your partner, coworkers, or even children, can have an energy that is overwhelming. It feels like the opposite of peace and calm.

These energies can create uncomfortable feelings in your body of hot or cold, sleepy or stimulating, mental or emotional, or even body pains and energetic ickiness. If you think about it, you can probably imagine how you’ve been uncomfortable with the energy of others daily.

There are reasons why you are affected by these external energies. As much as we’d like to believe “we’ve made it” and that “us enlightened people shouldn’t be affected by others,” we are affected.

One thing we all have in common is a desire for instant changes or instant gratification. By moving into a soul-based mindset, you will experience instant shifts each moment, truly.

My first passion was creating and performing music. Playing guitar in bands from age fifteen to twenty five provided me the greatest pleasure, and part of that satisfaction was how my music touched others. But I wanted more. I wanted a record deal with a real record company. Then, I wanted to write songs for major artists and produce them in the recording studio. I didn’t want to wait.

My epiphany with God on my twenty-fifth birthday showed me a new passion and purpose. Spirit has shown me a great, expansive vision of New Three^® University, and what is to come thereafter.

Seeing the future and such an enormous potential, leaves a small part of me wanting it now, whereas the bigger part of me is enjoying each step of creating this global movement under spirit, and the magic each day brings.

More importantly, I’ve learned to see the instant shifts in each moment.

Famous Psychic Mediums have one thing in common.

They have developed themselves.

Seasoned psychic mediums typically have felt the calling and had an initial opening from an early age. It’s true our soul abilities can be quite clear when we’re young because of the innocence we have as a child. But that is not enough to be a professional at it. Famous mediums have devoted themselves to developing their ability, and authentic mediums continue to develop for their entire life.

If you go to a psychic medium to receive answers and ask them about how they came to do their work professionally, you’ll want to hear a similar story. But if they try to convince you that they are of the ‘select few’ who were ‘born gifted’ and are ‘there’, that is your sign to run the other way! Look for psychic mediums who value and pursue their own continued growth and development. They will be great role models for you.

Do you have any dreams you want to understand more deeply?

When we sleep, we dream. Dreaming is a simple process that happens automatically, and it is our natural way of working through life challenges.

Dreams are your personality’s way of processing and evolving during sleep. Your mind and emotions are integrating and releasing life perspectives.

To understand your dreams, first consider that there is no universal symbolism in your dreams.

The big misconception that every visual symbol means the same thing for everyone is inaccurate. There is a huge body of information in books and online articles that will tell you what running water means or what a ladder means. All of our experiences and the way our minds process information is unique to each of us, therefore, there can be no ‘cookie cutter’ definition that applies to everyone.